Sky is the limit

Sky is the limitSky is the limit

Proverb:
Aim for the sky and you’ll reach the ceiling. Aim for the ceiling and you’ll stay on the floor.
Bill Shankly (1914-1981) Liverpool football manager

For me, this is a limitation. By defining the end goal. It’s like saying: when I’m 40, I’ll be a millionaire

It doesn’t say what to do with the millions you have. Most often, money is not a goal. Without further defining: I will have a house by the sea, a big sailboat and a helicopter that can take me anywhere I want when I am 40 years old. To have this you may need millions.

Aim for stars in what? My experience is that the goal should be clearly defined. The clearer the goal, the easier it is to pursue.

Example:
If you say you want a means of transport. Then can be anything. Bicycle, car, airplane or space rocket.
But if you say you want a red Honda Civic to go to work with, this is more specific and easier to reach.

Many I meet just want peace and quiet. Great wish, I say. But what is this for you. One says to sit for a coffee shop at the train station and see all the people rush past with a cup of coffee, without having a time to attend. Others say a small red cabin in the woods by a lake where it’s miles to the nearest neighbor.

We are all so different and have different definitions of the same thing that it can be interpreted as anything.

The sky is the limit is more prosperity. Good job / career, money at the bank, nice outward and social status.

Aiming at something is one to create a specific directions on how to get there.

Red Honda Civic, may be: you need a job / income to buy one.

It will be much easier to make a plan, for how you can get there, to carry out your wish if you have defined what you want. When you have a plan the only thing you need then is to schedule the plan in your everyday life.

Last week I described about the automatic systems we have and how we create such systems. By doing a little bit every day towards our goals in life. Will you, over time, always reach your goal. You don’t even have to have talent.

What does it mean: Sky is the limit, for you?

Are you trained for excellence?

Are you trained for excellence_Are you trained for excellence?

When you encounter problems, you solve the problem from the level you have been training for … This is done automatically automatically, without you being able to control.

A switch is turned on and the whole system is taken over when you are blocked. You perform everything according to the level you are or the level you have trained to.

Let me explain:
You have taught a child to tie the shoes right now. It goes great, for the child to tie the shoes. But one morning when you are late for kindergarten / school, the situation is more stressful and then it is next to impossible for the child to tie the shoes. This situation often ends with the adult tying the shoe. This for shoe tying, is not automated.

1000 times is usually the level of automation. This means that you need to do one thing 1000 times before the thing is fully automated. So you need to lift a water glass 1000 times before you have an automatic brain program, which means that you do not spill the water in the glass.

To take a more advanced example: You need to show your business concept to 1000 people before you have an automation program that will take you further in the process of building your business. It is said that it takes 3-5 years for a company to become profitable and this is one of the reasons …

You don’t have to be good or the best. You just have to do the thing 1000 times. Then you are automatically above average.

Statement!
This means that most people live a mediocre life in general for the level of excellence is mediocre under stress.

Most people do not do a thing until they become excellence and stop long before they reach results that take them over the first threshold of excellence.

You need about 1000 hours to reach a good level of something you want to develop.

30 minutes per day means that you need about 5.9 years to reach 1000 hours. 5.9 years sounds a long time, but you usually increase the time the more you delve into a subject. So just increasing by 30 minutes a day to 1 hour a day will allow you to reach 1000 hours in 2.5 years.

So what does your list of things you want to get excellence look like, and what things have you already got excellence?

This is my list of things I want excellence and things I’ve already achieved excellence:

  • I have made about 200 development videos for people. 150 is on my youtube channel, so I have 800 videos left if I want to reach excellence. It is said that 1000 videos give about $ 10,000 per month whichever topic you choose and you do not need to be good. Just make 1000 videos on one topic. I have a video with 1.3 million viewers maybe get $ 1,000 in total, but no longer.
  • I have painted / sold about 300 paintings so I have 700 left for excellence
  • I have made about 250 music pieces and have about 750 left for excellence
  • This year I have fed my brain with knowledge of Social Media Marketing about 500 hours of training. So 500 hours left before everything is automated

 

  • I’ve done more than 1000 long jumps and had a world record so I don’t have to train anymore on this … it was more than 10,000 hours of training to get there (10,000 hours is about 2.7 hours a day for 10 years). I’ve met people who were much better than I was, but they never trained the last 5000 hours needed for excellence. I mostly trained between 40-70 hours a week for several years…
  • I have coached more than 1000 people and developed a system of excellence, which has taken me more than 30 years to develop
  • I’ve lived in Thailand for more than 500 weeks in a row, and know how to live here. But still 500 weeks left for excellence (about 10 more years)
  • I have been feeding my brain with personal development processes for more than 10,000 hours. In 1992, my professor (with whom I was employed) said that I was the most read non-professor he met. There have been a number of books and articles, as I read, over the past 27 years. Development processes are my most passionate subject.

I love writing reflections like this text.

What illusion have you chosen to live in?

What illusion have you chosen to live in_What illusion have you chosen to live in?

Of the 1000s of people I meet over the years, this question is probably one of the most important to answer and above all make a map of.

Mapping the illusion, you live in is not as easy as it seems. First, I must understand that it is an illusion.

More and more people are beginning to understand that, thoughts govern life. What you think of daily, you get more of. If you think you have a shortage of money, you get more, a lack of money. Are you thinking that you have to solve problems with something, it is as if the problem gets bigger…

So, we listen to any “voodoo doctor”, you know those who seem to have the solution to all the problems of the earth. They tell us to focus on abundance and positivity. Enter your thoughts and see the image of abundance of money or a life of happiness.

So, we start thinking in other ways. A positive life with abundance.

2-3 weeks go by and nothing has happened. We are in the same deadlock, as before the “voodoo doctor”.

So, we stop.

After half a year or a year … the situation is even worse, and we know we must do something. So, we try to find a new “voodoo doctor” with a new solution. We look optimistic about it all and start testing.

The probability that the result will be the same is the next 100% … or more exactly 92%.

You may belong to the 8% who succeed. It is according to research at the University of Scranton. It says that why people fail is because there are no realistic challenging goals and that person does not have someone who can help you get you from point A to point B.

Example:
If you have read all this, you have learned to read!
How many hours did it take? Days? Maybe years?
Had we, a chance not to learn to read. I would answer NO. We didn’t have a chance. People helped us bridge the frustration and finally we read …

15-20 years ago, I started to read more in English, I was born Swedish and read Swedish. It was awkward, and I thought about quitting several times. It was too complicated. Tried to find the information in Swedish instead. So, I just slipped and created the illusion that it was not possible.

When I move to Thailand it became more natural with English and I could not slip anymore. I was more and more forced to handle English. Today I write my posts in English because many people who follow me cannot speak Swedish. My English is far from perfect, but I think most people understand, what I want to express.

So, when I lived in Sweden, English was not realistic in the same way as here in Thailand. Here I use English daily and my goal is to reach more English-speaking audiences.

Today I dream in English when I sleep and think English. In fact, find it difficult to find the words in my native language. But it took time and many English-speaking people. I have even written a book in English, available on Amazon to buy…

So, my thoughts have changed completely through the English illusion and I reach a completely different part of the earth’s population … than with the Swedish language

So, the week wonder from your world is:

Do you have a similar story where you lived in a thought path and then changed your mind, so you got a whole different life?

Write a comment and share this illusion text with your friends if you like it…

How to achieve your dreams in real life

How to achieve your dreams in real life

Mikael Avatar uncut for over an hour. The story in a new vintage for those of you who didn’t hear his story. His father beat his mother so seriously that Mikael Avatar was prematurely born. Has hardly hindered his progress in life …

Uncut means the video is completely uncut. Enjoy more than an hour with him …

To start over

To start over

When you have had a sports career and you are about to start living without the sport that has been your everyday life. Or you stop a job that has been a big part of your life. You may be moving to another city or ending your education after a few years.

How do you start learning the new way of life?

“The way to find the perfect life” is a team I have chosen to talk about at the 8th World Congress on Mind Training for Excellence in Sport & Life, in Gävle Sweden on June 12-16. I have been invited by Lars-Eric Uneståhl *, Ph.D.

This week I was invited to participate in the “Internationally Certified Life Coach” through the ICC – International Coaching Community. Lars-Eric and Elene Uneståhl’s first Life Coach education. I learned so much.

This is what I will talk about in this “live broadcast”

* President of Scandinavian International University is also the founder of the Mental Training (1960s)

 

Find your goal in the year 2019

Find your goal in the year 2019 or maybe the rest of your life

Without goals you come, nowhere. The more clearly you aim, the more chances are that you will reach your goal.

Questions to ask you to find goals 2019 or for life:

1. If the future were mine to reinvent, what would be in it for me?
2. On my deathbed, what will I be able to say was my biggest life achievement?
3. What a mission in my life will be the inspiration I need?
4. What is the one thing that I feel genuinely passionate about?
5. What do I enjoy, that really absorbs and engages me?
6. Can the job help you achieve my dreams?
(Out of the book Life Reset, by Mikael Avatar)

Don’t do it yourself. Get someone to follow on your topic that is more aware of what you are creating in your life. An inspirer that annoys you a lot so you always take steps towards what you want to manifest …

All coaches out there, for example youtube, have a coach. No matter how big they are, they have a coach mentor and they are constantly learning. Continuous development and curiosity about life. This may be the one thing that is constant. Everything else is chaotic before it takes shape.

Follow someone who teaches me new things in my life. So as a coach mentor.
For me, this means I watched over 100 videos about their business. Bought one of their products and went into depth what they did … then blindly followed them for a longer time, at least 6 months. Step by step what they say without adding my own variations or adding other methods I learned.
These people disturb me in a positive way. They put things on facebook youtube all the time. The whole time reminds me to stick to my life plan … they really annoy me in my life and make me do things I would otherwise forget. This means that, they drive me, forward to what I want to do. Without these coaches I would get stuck in some place I shouldn’t be … I would lose my focus, in life. I don’t have many I follow, but 2-3, otherwise I just get confused and overload with information and this end, with that I do nothing.

I fail all the time… last year I would, release a music CD or EP or whatever it is called. Failed totally with the music.

Released a book instead. So it was not total desperation … because I manifested something else. After watching up to 100 videos how to make a book for amazon I managed to publish one. It’s great for me. Without Stefan James, this book would never be created. Do you want to be irritated and inspired: How to create a new path in life I really recommend Stephen’s website: Project Life Mastery
To mention something, he makes a video every month on what he accomplished last month, in detail. What was the goal, how much money did he earn (down to cents), what private success did he do. He begins to create his successes from zero (actually in Thailand) and today one of his passions is to lead others to the same success … it hurts to follow him, if you do nothing in your life and begin to seriously manifest things in your life .

Further on, I will mention more people I have followed over the years …

So:
How much footwork do you do to reach where you want to go? And then really manifest the goal?
This is step 2 and I will make a live broadcast on this, next weekend

Is life a long wait?

Is life a long wait_Is life a long wait?

Our mom was waiting for us for 9 months. If we were not born earlier, like me about 8 months.

Many people seem to be living in their lifecycles. Some kind of start shot, then complete and then finish. Years out, and year in. Our schooling was divided so. Autumn reading, winter and then summer with leave.

The week can also be divided in this way. Monday start shot, Tuesday to Thursday implementation and Friday awaiting weekend. And then everything starts again on Monday.

The waiting for a driving license, waiting for the first payroll in life. The longing for finding the right partner to create a family. Buy a house or new car.

The road there is edged by different road choices to ensure future goals.

Those older enlightened people say all the time: do not wait, do … go out and catch the day (carpe diem).

The day today will never return. The day yesterday are memories that create future thoughts and experiences. The day tomorrow is blank and possible to do anything whatever you thought yesterday. Do we really understand this fully?

Text by Mikael Avatar