To take a stand for or against and decide?

To take a stand, for or against, and decide_Thoughts this week …
To take a stand, for or against, and decide? How do I do this?
I have no idea. There are many positions I must do all the time on many things. I try to proceed: What is good for me or in coaching What is good for the client?

By not taking a stand, I take a stand still. I surrender the responsibility to someone else. Or let life control me more randomly if I do not take a stand.

In terms of energy, you lose energy unless you don’t decide. You place the decision unconsciously on a mental shelf where it lies and sparkles just like loose power cords.

When deciding, it is like taking the plug and plugging it into the wall socket and the light is on. Then you see everything much clearer and you do not have to squint with your eyes to see what more decision you will take. You can puff out and the body relaxes.

Perhaps this metaphor can help how important it is to take a decision.

When it comes to making decisions about food, I really try to transfer this to my wife / sister as far as possible. I have a great defense because she is a Chef (even five-star Chef). She knows more about food than me and I have more attitude: Oh, are we going to eat today too …

More complicated decisions, I often must weigh in other factors. Thereafter, a couple of decisions are made and lots of new decisions must be made.

Example:

When I moved to Thailand, it’s not just moving.
The cramps in my body disappear, but how to survive in Thailand, legally leave Sweden, state of residence in Thailand and more. My friends, assignments I had in Sweden and divorce me from my wife.

First, I must make the decision to move. You cannot, for example, legally leave Sweden in case I’m moving. You must actually move from Sweden first.

You should decide about “The Core”, the essence first. The main subject where everything circles around.

So what’s the essence of your life? How to Find What’s Essential in Your Life?

Next week I will write about How to find the essence of life …

The unknown reality

The unknown realityThe unknown reality

There is a gap between reality and the unknown reality

Sometimes we know things that have not happened yet. How can this happen? And why can not we control this to our gain?

Some days we know that something positive will happen and other days we know we would have stayed in the saying something bad will happen. They come in waves. Not just one but several things in a row. This applies to those positive things as well.

We forget that positivity creates new positivity. I assume that everyone has experienced an accident not coming alone, but it follows a couple of several incidents of a negative nature. But even those positive things have the same phenomenon.

Many people live in the gap between the next positive incident in life or the next negative phase. A sort of gray zone where daily life lives. No ups and downs. Life is only.

But there is some kind of invisible energy cloud around us. Before all, speed up. Just the summer comes or when I buy my new car, when the children grow up, the next pay or what other things in life we ​​have great hopes that will happen.

When the finish is coming. So when you reach the vision, the longing you have in you. Is it, many times, not in phase. The expectation and what really happens does not become one and the same. It’s a gap.

This is what I mean by the gap between the unknown reality (what has not yet happened) and the reality (what actually happens).

New Motorbike MikaelExample:
A week ago, I acquired a new moped / motorcycle. The old has gone out of time. Even dangerous to drive around with. No repairs in the world would make it run properly. So I have a brand new motorcycle. One kilometer had passed when I got it and a red sign (red sign you have until the white registration plate comes).

I sat on the stairs and watched it. It looks fine … What now?
To me, moped is a means of transport, from point A to point B. So I took it on a “spin”.

I really tried to realize that there would be a difference. Was I happier now?
Absolutely it goes much better and there are fun lights that the old motorcycle did not have. It turns off at traffic lights, to save fuel.

No … no difference (no gap) the motorcycle is still just a means of transport in my reality. The advantage is that it takes less fuel and goes quieter. The pleasure of driving is the same. The wind in the face and the smells of freedom have not changed … I might be too stupid to understand that there should be something else.

So what’s your experience of the gap between reality and the unknown reality?

The mainstream

Add headingLong time since I wrote. I have had a break and here comes a maybe provocative text. Thanks to all over 700 people who viewed the video I posted, last time I did something here. Over 700 is a lot in my world …
I love comments and your thoughts are important to me. Your reality image helps me understand myself even more. I comment on everyone’s comments. If you want a text in the mainstream, this text is not for you …

THINKING ON MAINSTREAM

Mainstream is a word used to describe where a flow is in the culture.

The main flow of a cultural group or what most people spend their energy in and where the majority of the population consume precisely that cultural form. What’s in time.

Artists tend to be in mainstream after their death. They do not create in the mainstream but create the new mainstream that comes. Thinker who goes outside the box and lives without actually having any backing by someone, as the person’s art will be in the future …

They struggle to be understood. Expression its ingenious ability without actually being 100% understood.

Basquiat is perhaps contemporary art figure and became famous during its short life in the art world. In the film Basquiat he repeatedly describes his struggle to be understood. Andy Warhol told him (in the movie) that there are only a few who understand what we are creating and the rest only follows the mainstream. Pretend to understand.

Basquiat took his life 28 years old and is said to be unable to overcome the struggle by being understood. Perhaps it was the drugs that also took over the empty feeling he was trying to replenish his creation.

Today, April 2018, focus does not appear to be on art, but more on the power of artistic creators with their own private sexuality. A kind of misleading maneuver or more a saggy break that now something has to be done. That’s enough!

This is good, I think, on many levels. Partly because it has to come up that people are being exploited. This in order to believe in success lies in sharing their body and people use this illusion for their own private sexual gain.

Take advantage of their private sexuality to reach the mainstream, but even more power to conquer a body that causes the soul to be destroyed. Perhaps even can never recover, but forever disappears into the fog of unsightly souls. We are shocked at what happens behind the scenes, but not surprisingly. Everyone knows, but no one dares say something.

Caught in the act, the perpetrator becomes in defensive position. I am innocent, says the perpetrator, and hides behind his shield of regret. We will never know the whole truth.

Everything becomes a speculation where no one wins. It’s good that this comes up in mainstream news all over the world. That this has been a place in the mass media retrieval.

The individual artist will take care to not engage in private sexual harassment. Because if the person does this, he kills his own career in the mainstream…

Where are you?

Where are you_Where are you?
Is the big question this time.

All of these choices you made in life have led you to where you are right now. Where is it?

Do you stand at a crossroads or in the middle of the forest, a field or the desert? Are you alone or do you have a company?

Are you in a car, helicopter or are you walking?

There is no GPS for life. A device where you enter coordinates, and so you only need to listen to the voice and follow it towards your goal.

If you are 25 years or 50 years, as I am next month. Do you have the opportunity to wake up everyday and create anything. As long as your heart pumps blood into your veins you have the opportunity to create just about anything. The same applies if you are 90 years or 100 years old.

An arrow is required, one direction you have to access. Otherwise nothing happens. If you’re just out driving without direction. Can you end up anywhere. Next all people have obstacles that make them not do what they’re going to realize what they have come here to realize. You prevent other people’s choices. By not doing anything, people in your environment do not do anything either.

We fall into a comfortable everyday and rarely leave our safe box. We stop challenging life as we did when we were 2 years old. We broke out of the system and became our own individual with our own thoughts. It is the driving force every day in all of us.

We defend ourselves that we have some kind of awareness what is possible and not possible. Most people on earth learn to walk. We only learn to stack up, fall and stand up. Close we go. We do not need to figure out why we should walk. We just learn to walking. Imagine which driving power to learn walking. How many percent fail, you think. If you do not have a birth that causes your legs to not work. I would like to say that it is zero percent. It is 100% of all people who have the prerequisite of learning, to walk, succeed. There is no education for the parents, because you should learn to walk. Does not matter which parents you have taught you walk …
It’s literally ….
Why have you lost the driving force that made you learn to go … or to move your wheelchair on your own?

The freedom to walking is I believe the greatest discovery of man. It’s nice to take a driving license to drive a car. But the freedom to move from one point to another without the parents’ involvement is probably greater achievement.

Here the training begins in limitations. For when we go, doors are locked. Kitchen cabinets locked. This to protect you. So, you do not fall down for stairs or get the kitchen knives. By standing and wandering around alone in your grown-up environment. When you have a larger area that must be limited to protect you from dangers found everywhere.

The older we become, the better we will be to identify hazards and to make a risk assessment how to handle different moments of life.

Somewhere we lose us. We stop accepting challenges that require an effort to correspond to learning to go. We will be comfortable and rest in the situation where we are. So where are you ???

What challenges have you ceased to assume? What excuses have you imagined yourself are approved to not continue growing in life school. What ways did you stop going?

 

Who are you?

Who are you_When you meet other people, how do you think they perceive you_Who are you?
When you meet other people, how do you think they perceive you?

Self-awareness. Knowing who you are at every possible level is important. The picture in my head, who I am, is most often not the image people have of me.
Many see me as an inspiration source how to live a life. I myself perceive more as a human being is constantly changing. Sometimes even lazy and does not take much seriousness. Perhaps I will retire seriously and end all projects. I know I will never succeed with this but the thought is there.
The passion for making people grow is too big. I know that the more I can learn how I work out in the world, the more I can reach different people on earth.
I constantly change my notice board that is between me and people reading on my board. Moves over so different texts get different places. Changes words and images all the time. Not to confuse but I have different focus in different periods.
We (me and an art friend) are almost completely done with one of the elements of our tour. Maybe music video will be released next week … and it’s just a taste of the entire program that will be about 40 minutes.
The fit for music video is an abstract wedding and this week I have started a new project, which is about creating tools so 1000 CP (Cerebral Palsy) can marry next year.
So if you’re CP-injured or know someone who wants to learn how to get a life’s partner with a CP injury, please let me know.
Back to my question Who are you?
Have you really learned this? Interviewed people in your environment how they perceive you?
The more you know what you’re sending out for signals, the more opportunity you have to change what you really want to send to the recipient that meets you.
Are you perceived as silent, shy or outraged, with great appearance? You may have a system publicly but it’s really this message you want to broadcast. I was the clown and played the role of clown when I was out for many years. I understood this after a while and then I changed. I played the clown to reach people so they would understand that I had equal value and not focus on my CP. But this was not the person I was. I’m far too serious and think just too serious really boring thoughts. Such as how people get up now so that they have access to all this amazing life on the planet. There are few people who told me I’m too serious. Either this is because people do not dare say what they see or I’m not perceived as serious !!!

How are you thinking of this week’s thoughts?