90-99% do not have command in their lives

90-99% do not command their life90-99% do not have command in their lives

They live a life because of the circumstances and choices they made. Including myself. So am I in the right place?

Absolutely. I am definitely in the right place physically and psychologically. But am I in phase with my happiness? Hmmm ….

It is more difficult to answer. Would I be happier elsewhere?

I think the question is wrong. I think the question would be:

Where do I want to be in a year from now?

I am constantly evolving and I challenge myself to constantly challenge my destiny. It is said that the only constant in life is change.

In our daily thought cycles, people ponder:
How should I fix this? Oh, this requires new insights.

We are experts at delaying decisions, which we should have made several years ago. We think tomorrow I will start, and so it went two years more

In the meantime, we maintain what is reasonable.
Fairly good, Fairly good friends, Fairly good job, Fairly good vacation, Fairly good time for yourself…

We would need a restart and we are waiting for the perfect time. Then I will grab my life…

The best thing I’ve learned in Thailand is that now … it’s actually now …

I can say to my wife / sister (complicated relationship):
When that happens, I want to do this… my sister / wife replies:
I don’t understand westerners that they want to waste time finding out things before it happens.

In Thailand you find out your conditions and what you think you want. Then “take the decisive step”.

One day in March, this year, we were without water. The municipality’s water reservoir pump pie. So no water for almost a week. We built a water pool to collect water. It is now used extensively by grandchildren as a swimming pool and then emptied into Lime plantation. Then it is filled up with fresh fresh water as a swimming pool. The pool was built in a few hours before the need for water arose. So we made sure to: take action.

So what do I mean by 90-99% don’t have the command of their lives?

According to Neale Donald Walsch, you have the right to just leave. When you feel that life does not work, you have the right, as a human, to go. Leave work, family, friends, city you live in or the country you live in. Just start over somewhere else where you can be happier. There is no law to stop you. You may be required to pay child benefit and similar things, mortgages and more. But morally you have no obligations to anyone about anything. You are a free soul on earth and most people have the opportunity to do what they want with their lives.

So what I’m saying is that 90-99% don’t have the ability to just walk…

When everything is put on its “tip” or we get cornered and it just doesn’t go anymore. Then first people do something. Not if life is just: Fairly good

That is why successful people become more successful because they have the ability to change and follow the flow that takes them closer to where they want to go. They take command of their destiny and adjust the plan they have so it gets better.

For decades I’ve been pondering, How to make people wake up:
“The fire alarm has been ringing for a long time now and you have to evacuate your hotel. However comfortable it may be. (Metaphor)”

Shake and get man to step away from a life that is: Fairly good

Even wrote a book on the subject: Life Reset, 5 practical steps

Still, after decades of searching, I have no 100% answer.

For 6 months, I took the help of a well-known author who helped me write down this process. We wrote 3-5 times a week for 6 months over skype. She lives in another continent. She interviewed me and asked in detail: How to Make People Stop Living Fairly Good Life.

It became a mail series, which you can get for free, look further down. Six fantastic emails describing this process.
The first point I raised was to observe and the process that starts an avalanche of new insights into what life really is.

I am really grateful that Barbro Bronsberg helped me to get down to concrete how to change.

Here’s how to get these 6 emails:

Click the link: https://www.lifecoachmega.com/free-download
You come to a page where you download my book, free: Life Reset
Full in the information name, e-mail
Then you have to confirm your email address in an email sent to you
Once you confirm your email, all 6 emails will automatically be sent to you for a number of days. In addition, you can download my book for free. An email about this will also come…

These mails are the best I have created and gathered the wisdom of coaching 1000’s of people, for over 20,000 hours of my life… Read these mails to get to the group of people who have more control over their lives and want to succeed …

How lost am I …

How lost am IHow lost am I …

If we play with the idea that we are lost on the sea, in a boat…

We say we travel for a month with the boat and we don’t know where we are…

When I sailed across the Atlantic, in 1988, we did not see land in 30 days. It was water / sea in every direction all the way to the horizon. Finding someone who is lost is impossible. Even though today’s technology is well developed, it is difficult to find someone if they do not have a contactable signal system.

It is said that life is a lonely experience. We can share thoughts with other people, but really life is a lonely person’s experience. At sea you / I are small. Water and again water. In life, I / you are lost the majority of the time, my hypothesis.

So when we travel for a month at sea and do not know where we are. How long does it take to find back or find something we want to find that we don’t know. One month? Hardly. If it is a month to travel in all directions, it will take significantly more time. It is said that it takes 30 days of daily metal training to be able to change a thought pattern. And probably longer before it’s fully automated.

Most people I have met through life all have a boat to go anywhere. But very few have left the harbor. They look at the horizon and dream. Not today the waves seem high or there will be rain today. When the sea is shiny and the sun is shining beautifully like a beast. Are we saying: Not today I’ll enjoy now when it’s finally sun…

So the boat stays in the harbor all life and the dream keeps life in its longing. Dr. Frankel, the book “Life Must Have a Meaning,” he interviewed people who were with the Holocaust and everyone had something to hook their lives on. A love that awaited, a child who might be alive, a house / village / social life that they showed had to be found when everything was over in the camps.
So my boat in the harbor is being refurbished and taken care of in case the journey begins today … if I lose faith that the dream will not come. I lose my life. People without dreams and goals are dead corpses, who live shortly after they lose faith. Time and time again I see this happening. When the dream is gone and no new dream exists. Life faded away and only a diffuse shadow can be seen.

In last week’s text I said that: The interesting thing is not what you start to change in your life today, but if you still in 5 years make your new habits.

It usually takes 5 years, before what you start with, gets a meaning in life. It took me 100 paintings before I felt that I might be an artist. 100 YouTube videos before I could really edit videos I wanted. More than 100 pieces of music before I really felt that the music, I was creating was like something I wanted to create…

Partly it is the craft I need to learn, but most of all how to think. How I step by step see my eyes open and I see things I couldn’t do before…

So how many hours do I have left before I can see what I really want to create?

Are you lost in your life?

2020 the year when everything will be different right ???

New Year's text by Mikael Avatar🔥🔥🔥 2020 the year when everything will be different right ??

My experience with myself and others I coached for 40 years and more than 20,000 hours of one to one coaching is:

  • No one wants to go anywhere voluntarily if they do not suffer and their whole existence is not threatened
  • I have not met anyone who has moved from where they are to a better standard in their lives without a coach / mentor or inspirer to help do what is required, including myself
  • Only 3 out of 100 people succeed though they have a coach / mentor or inspirer to help them come to a completely different way of living a life
  • Next everyone I talked to wants to live another life, but only 3 out of 100 manage to create this

A little of the above statements, he may explain that the coaching industry is only at the beginning of development. Are the coaches too bad because only 3 out of 100 succeed?

No…

Most people who have a coach / mentor / inspirer feel better and have a better understanding of their life, after collaboration.

My mentors I use say that people pay between $ 1000 and $ 10,000 for help for a better life, but 3 out of 100 people do the work that is actually required to take your life elsewhere. 97 people do not do the work, to come to a better life, though they paid for their own development.

3 out of 100 sounds very little, so let me explain. When you were a kid you might paint, ride a horse, play some instrument, play football or some other sport. How many of them you met when you were a child are now:

Artists, work with horses, musicians, or professional sports woman / man?

Probably fewer than 3 people… So we humans test a lot of things but it is about 3 out of 100 that actually after 5 years is still doing what we tested 5 years earlier.

There is no magic pill that you can buy. If you want to create another life, you have to work with the life task.

I have described over and over again how I created things in my life. To become long jumpers, you should do at least 1000 long jumps and 1000 hours of training.

If you want to get to the Olympics, you should do more than 10,000 long jumps and more than 10,000 hours of training. I did about 15,000 hours of training for my world record, in long jump for my injury class at Paraolympisk.

The same if you want to become an artist, musician or veterinarian or other profession. I did 100 paintings to see if I wanted to be an artist. Before, it is not possible to decide. You must, in my opinion, do many hours of work before you can decide if this is really what you want to do. Many read the subject of a profession in younger years, but the majority have a profession in something completely different when they are older.

I would like to say that:

You don’t have to have talent. You need passion to be able to do 10,000 hours in the area you want to succeed.

You need people around you who are like-minded, coaches, inspirers and, above all, people who believe in you, listen to you.

These people, you will need: when in doubt, when you are sad that it does not work, when you make the wrong choice, when you lose all hope of success. This belongs to the process.

So these people around you will support you to overcome all obstacles and keep your focus on your dream of achieving success towards what you are striving for.

Last year 2019, I spent between 500-600 * hours on an advanced Social Media Marketing course and will, among other things, in 2020 start helping people with internet marketing and launch my new website Life Coach Mega.

So now it’s time to see if my 600 hours * of training can produce the return I hope for. I have had great fun with my education and now the fruits will be harvested.

The leading theme from my teachers is:

Do the footwork, reprogram your brain, against the new, which you will create (which is your biggest obstacle, which you will not do), then you need some technical knowledge, but most of it is to train to think from a completely different perspective than where you are now. If you do this, you are there within 12-18 months whatever you want to achieve…

If you do not want to do footwork / rethink, against something new, you will probably live a life that 97% of the earth’s population does. Probably a good life, when you are 70 years old 80 years old and looking back on how you lived.

The 3% who do something else live an extraordinary life, which the other 97% marvel at.

You who read, right up to here …

Thank you: What are your plans for 2020?

Happy new end and welcome to 2020 with new opportunities

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Funds of Life Coach Mega, launched in 2020, very soon

* 600 hours per year = 50 hours per month = about 12 hours per week = about 2.5 hours per day Monday to Friday

 

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Are you trained for excellence?

Are you trained for excellence_Are you trained for excellence?

When you encounter problems, you solve the problem from the level you have been training for … This is done automatically automatically, without you being able to control.

A switch is turned on and the whole system is taken over when you are blocked. You perform everything according to the level you are or the level you have trained to.

Let me explain:
You have taught a child to tie the shoes right now. It goes great, for the child to tie the shoes. But one morning when you are late for kindergarten / school, the situation is more stressful and then it is next to impossible for the child to tie the shoes. This situation often ends with the adult tying the shoe. This for shoe tying, is not automated.

1000 times is usually the level of automation. This means that you need to do one thing 1000 times before the thing is fully automated. So you need to lift a water glass 1000 times before you have an automatic brain program, which means that you do not spill the water in the glass.

To take a more advanced example: You need to show your business concept to 1000 people before you have an automation program that will take you further in the process of building your business. It is said that it takes 3-5 years for a company to become profitable and this is one of the reasons …

You don’t have to be good or the best. You just have to do the thing 1000 times. Then you are automatically above average.

Statement!
This means that most people live a mediocre life in general for the level of excellence is mediocre under stress.

Most people do not do a thing until they become excellence and stop long before they reach results that take them over the first threshold of excellence.

You need about 1000 hours to reach a good level of something you want to develop.

30 minutes per day means that you need about 5.9 years to reach 1000 hours. 5.9 years sounds a long time, but you usually increase the time the more you delve into a subject. So just increasing by 30 minutes a day to 1 hour a day will allow you to reach 1000 hours in 2.5 years.

So what does your list of things you want to get excellence look like, and what things have you already got excellence?

This is my list of things I want excellence and things I’ve already achieved excellence:

  • I have made about 200 development videos for people. 150 is on my youtube channel, so I have 800 videos left if I want to reach excellence. It is said that 1000 videos give about $ 10,000 per month whichever topic you choose and you do not need to be good. Just make 1000 videos on one topic. I have a video with 1.3 million viewers maybe get $ 1,000 in total, but no longer.
  • I have painted / sold about 300 paintings so I have 700 left for excellence
  • I have made about 250 music pieces and have about 750 left for excellence
  • This year I have fed my brain with knowledge of Social Media Marketing about 500 hours of training. So 500 hours left before everything is automated

 

  • I’ve done more than 1000 long jumps and had a world record so I don’t have to train anymore on this … it was more than 10,000 hours of training to get there (10,000 hours is about 2.7 hours a day for 10 years). I’ve met people who were much better than I was, but they never trained the last 5000 hours needed for excellence. I mostly trained between 40-70 hours a week for several years…
  • I have coached more than 1000 people and developed a system of excellence, which has taken me more than 30 years to develop
  • I’ve lived in Thailand for more than 500 weeks in a row, and know how to live here. But still 500 weeks left for excellence (about 10 more years)
  • I have been feeding my brain with personal development processes for more than 10,000 hours. In 1992, my professor (with whom I was employed) said that I was the most read non-professor he met. There have been a number of books and articles, as I read, over the past 27 years. Development processes are my most passionate subject.

I love writing reflections like this text.

To take a stand for or against and decide?

To take a stand, for or against, and decide_Thoughts this week …
To take a stand, for or against, and decide? How do I do this?
I have no idea. There are many positions I must do all the time on many things. I try to proceed: What is good for me or in coaching What is good for the client?

By not taking a stand, I take a stand still. I surrender the responsibility to someone else. Or let life control me more randomly if I do not take a stand.

In terms of energy, you lose energy unless you don’t decide. You place the decision unconsciously on a mental shelf where it lies and sparkles just like loose power cords.

When deciding, it is like taking the plug and plugging it into the wall socket and the light is on. Then you see everything much clearer and you do not have to squint with your eyes to see what more decision you will take. You can puff out and the body relaxes.

Perhaps this metaphor can help how important it is to take a decision.

When it comes to making decisions about food, I really try to transfer this to my wife / sister as far as possible. I have a great defense because she is a Chef (even five-star Chef). She knows more about food than me and I have more attitude: Oh, are we going to eat today too …

More complicated decisions, I often must weigh in other factors. Thereafter, a couple of decisions are made and lots of new decisions must be made.

Example:

When I moved to Thailand, it’s not just moving.
The cramps in my body disappear, but how to survive in Thailand, legally leave Sweden, state of residence in Thailand and more. My friends, assignments I had in Sweden and divorce me from my wife.

First, I must make the decision to move. You cannot, for example, legally leave Sweden in case I’m moving. You must actually move from Sweden first.

You should decide about “The Core”, the essence first. The main subject where everything circles around.

So what’s the essence of your life? How to Find What’s Essential in Your Life?

Next week I will write about How to find the essence of life …

New start 2018

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How to Start New 2018?
How was last year? Did you get what you planned?

Every year we have the opportunity to start over. This year will be the year 2018.

Listen to Gary Vee and he said: Motivational videos are “… .t” for people tending to do nothing … after comments “this was good for me today” they still comment after 8 months the same thing without doing anything in between .

He means that if I’m still watching his videos after 8 months, something is wrong. If, on the other hand, I stopped watching his videos and doing what I’m going to do. Where I’ll be is not in his world but my world. You who do not know who Gary Vee is may want to watch his videos, one of the most successful on the internet from business, motivation and more. He is everywhere …. See link in comments

What are your plans for breakthough 2018

What are your plans for breakthrough 2018Breakthrough
2017 is about to end. Plans for next year’s efforts will begin to be planned.

What do you want to achieve?
Are you a person who is waiting for the best opportunity to start your new life or are you a person who just starts your new life NOW?

There will always be circumstances that make you never start. It’s raining today, I’ve got a lot of work now, my partner leaves me, I have no money, next summer, you’ll work better when I moved to my new apartment or any other ideas that prevent you from growing as a human being.

If you want to make a difference in your life next year 2018 and think of the courses I just described. Get a coach / mentor or inspirator. No matter who the person is, just it can inspire you to get a completely different starting point for your new life. Everyone I know has a teacher mentor or coach who creates a platform for their success.
In fact, I have not met any person, which is very successful, without having someone who follows their progress. Imagine a basketball player without a coach or a football player without a coach. Business leader without an inspiration. A mother but newborn baby without a mother who can help.
It may be possible, but it takes a lot more time to clear all the points to reach where you want.

I have several mentors for different things. People I turn to with special knowledge of the subject I want to break through. Without these people, I would be totally lost. Much can I figure out myself, but I need input that I’m on the right track. Chance and fix things on your own are time consuming and usually lead to more questions in my life.

What breakthroughs have you planned to implement 2018?
Write in comments and tell. Maybe I can tell you where to go for the best help …