Is life a long wait?

Is life a long wait_Is life a long wait?

Our mom was waiting for us for 9 months. If we were not born earlier, like me about 8 months.

Many people seem to be living in their lifecycles. Some kind of start shot, then complete and then finish. Years out, and year in. Our schooling was divided so. Autumn reading, winter and then summer with leave.

The week can also be divided in this way. Monday start shot, Tuesday to Thursday implementation and Friday awaiting weekend. And then everything starts again on Monday.

The waiting for a driving license, waiting for the first payroll in life. The longing for finding the right partner to create a family. Buy a house or new car.

The road there is edged by different road choices to ensure future goals.

Those older enlightened people say all the time: do not wait, do … go out and catch the day (carpe diem).

The day today will never return. The day yesterday are memories that create future thoughts and experiences. The day tomorrow is blank and possible to do anything whatever you thought yesterday. Do we really understand this fully?

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Interesting fascinating people

Johan NordansjöJohan Nordansjö is the person this week as “Interesting fascinating people”

I meet Johan the first time in 1988. Then he was the star who came home from Paralympics, Soul. We had been on the same computer education and I had the opportunity to talk to him. I myself had barely begun my sports career and far from Paralympics level like Johan.

We started hanging out and made lots of things together. Once I wanted to take Johan to a special restaurant. The elevator was too small and the restaurant was on the second floor. I said:
If we take off the wheels on the wheelchair we get into the elevator.
So I start taking off the wheels. When the wheels were gone, I had to keep the entire wheelchair from behind with one hand. So I could give Johan the wheels that he would hold. Then into the elevator. Press the elevator button 2 and balance the wheelchair.
On the second floor out of the elevator. Two CP-injured people come out of an elevator. It was the sight of restaurant owners meeting. The one shakes the hell and tries to keep the wheels in his arms. The other is fiddling with one arm to put the wheels on the wheelchair again. I ask if the restaurant is open. This is just one of many anecdotes with Johan.

Johan is a goal-conscious person and his performance in the athletics arena tells clearly about this. World champion, triple European champion, and more. He was back kicker. That means he kicked the wheelchair backwards. His best distance was 800 meters. After as his CP injury makes the muscular movements uncontrolled, he tied his hands and one leg under the wheelchair when he competed.

Eating with a knife and fork is not to be considered. They would just go around in the air and be dangerous. So just that view of a restaurant when he and I were out makes people unable to stop watching. I eat from my plate and I feed Johan from his plate.

This does not prevent Johan from being two-child’s father, author and appreciated public speaker.
In my world, he lives a common life like everyone else. Marry, have children and work. Johan is among the few people I met with a completely undisturbed upbringing. Most people have some kind of childhood trauma, but when Johan and I talk about this, there is no such thing in his growth.

johannordansjo600x400So for him, life is about just being common. To have the right to think and live like anybody. It’s not easy. Man has the ability to judge people from their body and not so much from their soul and heart. Johan has been detained by guards because they thought he had been on a run from any hospital in shopping centers. All the time people speak with assistants who are with and not Johan himself.

I would like to say that Johan is controversial author in a way and in another he expresses his opinion about the right to live a life. In his book “My Naked Me”, he says, among other things, that Sweden should scrape the sex purchase laws. All we people with or without disabilities have a sexual need. Which created debate. Other countries have this why not Sweden.

That he is writing his books with his nose is perhaps a little amazing. Johan’s lectures are kept with precision on the subject and are texts that people can accompany. His speech is too strange and people have difficulty deciphering the speech, for me no problem. This makes him an exceptional speaker who does not swam with irregularities that often happen in that industry.

Below text from Johans blogg, the link goes to a text I like:

in Swedish:
Johan Nordansjös blogg

for English:
https://translate.google.com/translate?sl=sv&tl=en&js=y&prev=_t&hl=sv&ie=UTF-8&u=http%3A%2F%2Fomsorgsfamiljen.blogspot.com%2F2018%2F06%2Fjag-tycker-inte-om-att-du-ar-handikapp.html&edit-text=&act=url

Get started using “Target the stars and reach it”.
Do you know that you have the opportunity to reach where you want? You have the capacity, but have you thought? Johan inspires you to achieve your high goals.
Even though we all look different, we are humans all, but what is the reason why some of us give each other bad feelings? In joking and seriousness, Johan explains and shows how the ways can go.

The preferred “Target the Stars and Reach It” is a fast-paced and inspiring journey through life, a journey of joy and the character of joy. It raises thoughts and opens up the possibilities of life.

Why I chose Johan Nordansjö to “Interesting fascinating people” is that he is normal and not really any special with his life. But society interprets him as special but he is one of them, if there are, most normal people I know.

Thoughts this week

Text by Mikael AvatarDo I have a skewed idea of ​​what’s going on in my life?
I have at least 20-30 years left of my life. So how to get the best possible development. I already notice that I do not have the driving force like when I was 20-30 years old.

Recently (2-3 years) I’ve tested artistic videos, youtube and lots of different systems for a better world for me.

Make me happy? Hmmmm … I have had happy moments all the time and have all the time in my world …
But a constant blast of happiness 24 hours a day, I can not claim I have!

Now is the quietest time in Thailand, where I live. The rain has begun. But that does not stop me from being at sea several times a week. It’s so quiet, by the sea.

Someone asks how to define what I’m coaching in. However, I could not explain. So I ask some people about what I do. Everyone answers the same thing:
It’s not possible. It just has to be experienced.

There are amazing replies, but how to explain to someone who does not know or do not need my coaching. Everyone knows someone who wants to develop.
Memories of something amazing you created for them …

I may have to start molding, what happens in people’s lives, as an explanation of my input / contribution to the world.

Children who come to me and after a while can count math again. Or a man / woman who resigns from work and starts his own business around his own passion. Or someone else who can start communicating based on their worldview, they have never been able to express themselves. Muscle tension that disappears in the body of people because they finally understand what is happening.

People who think of words I said and daily change their worldview for the better. There are many people over the years. 1000’s of meetings and experiences. Unforgettable moments. Both for people I met and myself.
All people who work with people have stories where their contributions have changed people’s lives.
One woman whispered in my ear once: Thank you for being there. I looked a little over her and she said: My son received a diagnosis for the rest of his life today and I cried desperately because he’s only 4 years old. Then I thought about you and your lecture that everything is possible. So I did not have to cry anymore, she said, and see you here the same day after so many years make it true, so thanks … then she disappeared without I could comment.

Second, sequences that are forever available and can be retrieved to not forget who I am and what my innermost goal has been throughout my life. Many have listened and many will never listen because I’m not in their worldview. I do not want to be there either. I just want to reach a few who really want to see something else.

You may be one of them. But I know you are one of the people who changes the lives of other people. Whether you want or not …

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Interesting fascinating people

Interesting fascinating peopleA new series where I will write about: Interesting fascinating people

First off, my friend, Blair Robinson, is due to his Facebook group passing incredible 30,000 people this week.
An incredibly inspiring achievement.

Blair has all his life working with people in some form and finally finds what he’s passionate about. One of his calling is to help people to help other people. He lives in Australia, but his group has members all over the world.

Practical Metaphysics is a movement that more and more people want to develop and practice.

What is Practical Metaphysics?
Practical Metaphysics is all about understanding the nature of consciousness, reality and existence itself, but more than that, it’s about how we use this knowledge in our daily lives to make our world – the reality that we co-create – a better place. This is a quote from the facebook group website.

Blair has tried many different internet solutions and never really felt at home. So when he started Practical Metaphysics in January 2017, it was the passion that followed him the most in his life. Everyday, you will receive various practical tips on Practical Metaphysics. Part of the tip from Blair himself, but especially from the 1000’s of other people who share their life experience on the subject, that’s why it’s become a movement. Everything from people with academic studies on the subject to people like myself who just want to find belonging to a group that suits me best.

Talking to Blair is a meeting with a humble, understanding person. One who wants people to find their way to their calling in life. There are few people I talk to who do not have an agenda and Blair is one of them. In depth, incorporate the person’s passion into life and find a way to achieve success, so people can share their wisdom to others.

I have felt unprecedented in many contexts, but in the group I can really feel at home on a completely different level. Many parts of ideas I think are wrestling with. There are so many new contacts with people who think as me through Blair’s passion.

So I highly recommend Practical Metaphysics, click on the link https://www.facebook.com/groups/PracticalMetaphysics/

For those who do not have Facebook, there is a website: http://practicalmetaphysics.org/

Next week’s interesting fascinating person will be my friend Johan Nordansjö, author who writes all books with his nose to mention something …. Of course, Paralympics as well. Tuesday or Wednesday, the posts will be posted.

Do not lose yourself

Do not lose yourself, in the weather of the autumn wind
Is summer over?
Schools start, and workplaces begin after summer break in the western world.
It is 10-11 months to the next summer season. Do you have everything that you should do during your leave? But perhaps the most important question: Were you happy?

Where I am, there is always summer, and I can always be free. It’s a little cooler now around 26-28 degrees. The rainy season has not begun yet, but the clouds obscure the sun more and more.

Perhaps this video can help you. I call it “Do not lose yourself, in the weather of the autumn wind”

Core of life

text by mikael avatarCore of life

What is the essence of your life

As far as parents are concerned, the core is the children. Everything depends on the children, depending on the age they are in. Such a holiday will be the most appropriate for the children’s needs. Most of the time crashes to ensure the needs of the children.

Jobs are tailored to the child’s different periods of life. But then then? The children have moved away from home and have their own families …
What happens to the core of your life then?

The essentials change throughout life. That’s where we spend the most time of our lives.

If you have an education in any form and work in that area. So you spend the most time at work around what you are trained for. It is the essence of your life at work. At home in your free time you can have a completely different area around life.

Some people have life projects that can be: a family farm to be maintained so the children can take over when they are adults.

If you think you have a boring common life that nobody wants to hear about. I would like you for a while to think like this.

No matter who you are or how you grew up, you have a story. That story can always help other people understand how important their lives are. It is in those small details that life is alive.

There are always listeners out there in the world who want to hear your story. If you have a job, family and live what you think a boring common life, that’s not true. If you would start to document what you do each week in any way.

Write, film or talk to your mobile. Will you discover how rich your life is. You will see how many moments of life it happens real miracle. The first step the children take or when they learn the multiplication table. Drive a car without you … you and your partner experience something magical for a regular evening.

By starting to document, you’ll see patterns of living your life and finding the core, or the essence of your life.

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To take a stand for or against and decide?

To take a stand, for or against, and decide_Thoughts this week …
To take a stand, for or against, and decide? How do I do this?
I have no idea. There are many positions I must do all the time on many things. I try to proceed: What is good for me or in coaching What is good for the client?

By not taking a stand, I take a stand still. I surrender the responsibility to someone else. Or let life control me more randomly if I do not take a stand.

In terms of energy, you lose energy unless you don’t decide. You place the decision unconsciously on a mental shelf where it lies and sparkles just like loose power cords.

When deciding, it is like taking the plug and plugging it into the wall socket and the light is on. Then you see everything much clearer and you do not have to squint with your eyes to see what more decision you will take. You can puff out and the body relaxes.

Perhaps this metaphor can help how important it is to take a decision.

When it comes to making decisions about food, I really try to transfer this to my wife / sister as far as possible. I have a great defense because she is a Chef (even five-star Chef). She knows more about food than me and I have more attitude: Oh, are we going to eat today too …

More complicated decisions, I often must weigh in other factors. Thereafter, a couple of decisions are made and lots of new decisions must be made.

Example:

When I moved to Thailand, it’s not just moving.
The cramps in my body disappear, but how to survive in Thailand, legally leave Sweden, state of residence in Thailand and more. My friends, assignments I had in Sweden and divorce me from my wife.

First, I must make the decision to move. You cannot, for example, legally leave Sweden in case I’m moving. You must actually move from Sweden first.

You should decide about “The Core”, the essence first. The main subject where everything circles around.

So what’s the essence of your life? How to Find What’s Essential in Your Life?

Next week I will write about How to find the essence of life …