How’s life?

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A little chaotic on earth right now and I was just going to check how are you?

This epidemic / pandemic will probably continue to affect our lives for many more months, and years? !!!

This is what my life looks like right now:

I’ve been painting again for a month or so. I have been creating art all the time, but now it is only painting that counts. Finished today with new wall painting that I see when I work, see picture above… goes to an art colleague’s studio and paints, see link Elsie Evans Art Retreat https://www.facebook.com/elsieevansart/ , absolutely incredible painting place in Ban Phe, Thailand.

Has started a series of paintings that will become lithographs. That’s the goal… I don’t really have the finances for all the steps for my series of paintings, but I take one step at a time.

Otherwise, keep me at home. My wife’s grandson boy goes to school, even on Saturdays to catch up on school. He is only 5.5 years old and now lives with us.

The beaches are open again and are by the sea several times a week. Raining unusually much and done now for a week or so. But hot in and sometimes over 40 degrees. The real rainy season is usually in September but early this year.

What is happening in your life?

90-99% do not have command in their lives

90-99% do not command their life90-99% do not have command in their lives

They live a life because of the circumstances and choices they made. Including myself. So am I in the right place?

Absolutely. I am definitely in the right place physically and psychologically. But am I in phase with my happiness? Hmmm ….

It is more difficult to answer. Would I be happier elsewhere?

I think the question is wrong. I think the question would be:

Where do I want to be in a year from now?

I am constantly evolving and I challenge myself to constantly challenge my destiny. It is said that the only constant in life is change.

In our daily thought cycles, people ponder:
How should I fix this? Oh, this requires new insights.

We are experts at delaying decisions, which we should have made several years ago. We think tomorrow I will start, and so it went two years more

In the meantime, we maintain what is reasonable.
Fairly good, Fairly good friends, Fairly good job, Fairly good vacation, Fairly good time for yourself…

We would need a restart and we are waiting for the perfect time. Then I will grab my life…

The best thing I’ve learned in Thailand is that now … it’s actually now …

I can say to my wife / sister (complicated relationship):
When that happens, I want to do this… my sister / wife replies:
I don’t understand westerners that they want to waste time finding out things before it happens.

In Thailand you find out your conditions and what you think you want. Then “take the decisive step”.

One day in March, this year, we were without water. The municipality’s water reservoir pump pie. So no water for almost a week. We built a water pool to collect water. It is now used extensively by grandchildren as a swimming pool and then emptied into Lime plantation. Then it is filled up with fresh fresh water as a swimming pool. The pool was built in a few hours before the need for water arose. So we made sure to: take action.

So what do I mean by 90-99% don’t have the command of their lives?

According to Neale Donald Walsch, you have the right to just leave. When you feel that life does not work, you have the right, as a human, to go. Leave work, family, friends, city you live in or the country you live in. Just start over somewhere else where you can be happier. There is no law to stop you. You may be required to pay child benefit and similar things, mortgages and more. But morally you have no obligations to anyone about anything. You are a free soul on earth and most people have the opportunity to do what they want with their lives.

So what I’m saying is that 90-99% don’t have the ability to just walk…

When everything is put on its “tip” or we get cornered and it just doesn’t go anymore. Then first people do something. Not if life is just: Fairly good

That is why successful people become more successful because they have the ability to change and follow the flow that takes them closer to where they want to go. They take command of their destiny and adjust the plan they have so it gets better.

For decades I’ve been pondering, How to make people wake up:
“The fire alarm has been ringing for a long time now and you have to evacuate your hotel. However comfortable it may be. (Metaphor)”

Shake and get man to step away from a life that is: Fairly good

Even wrote a book on the subject: Life Reset, 5 practical steps

Still, after decades of searching, I have no 100% answer.

For 6 months, I took the help of a well-known author who helped me write down this process. We wrote 3-5 times a week for 6 months over skype. She lives in another continent. She interviewed me and asked in detail: How to Make People Stop Living Fairly Good Life.

It became a mail series, which you can get for free, look further down. Six fantastic emails describing this process.
The first point I raised was to observe and the process that starts an avalanche of new insights into what life really is.

I am really grateful that Barbro Bronsberg helped me to get down to concrete how to change.

Here’s how to get these 6 emails:

Click the link: https://www.lifecoachmega.com/free-download
You come to a page where you download my book, free: Life Reset
Full in the information name, e-mail
Then you have to confirm your email address in an email sent to you
Once you confirm your email, all 6 emails will automatically be sent to you for a number of days. In addition, you can download my book for free. An email about this will also come…

These mails are the best I have created and gathered the wisdom of coaching 1000’s of people, for over 20,000 hours of my life… Read these mails to get to the group of people who have more control over their lives and want to succeed …

The Canyon

The CanyonThe red cliff valley is spreading. At the bottom there is a river, which it cannot be seen from the edge. A tear runs down the cheek. So breathtaking is the sight. One of the wonders that exists on earth lies ahead of me. I lock the rental car and start walking. Go down the mountain after a trail and think it may not take that long.

It is about two kilometers down vertical and horizontally maybe four kilometers, to the river. I had 1.5 liters of water with me. It is warm, so that small droplets are formed on the pan immediately. It is about two in the afternoon. I am well trained and I go fast.

A woman stops me halfway. You go too fast and she urges me to turn around because I won’t get down and up before it’s carbon black when the sun goes down. Drinking some water and calming down the pace, a little, but determined to take me down.

After two hours I’m down at the river. A giant footbridge takes me to the other side of the river. Talk to a guide, for the area and he says I have to hurry. I don’t really understand him. Well, you can not sleep here, it has been booked for several years and should cover the mountain edge, you must go now.

He wondered when I started going down. Two o’clock I said. His eyes were staring at me and he didn’t believe me. Do you have water. I showed the now half-filled water bottle. It must be enough for you to not refill here, due to water access.

The river rushes quickly and is impossible to cross. I make my way to the other suspension bridge, which is probably 60 meters between the rails, and start the journey up. Taking some melted biscuit chocolate and washing my hands in a stream that sprinkles down on the red rock. Completely clean greased rock.

How are you, I hear a voice say. Good, and the conversation is taking off. We’re going to ride a water slide on a rocky slope here, you want too. Of course I followed. Underwear in the heat, we went from one pond to the next on the smooth velvet pours. Pond after pond, maybe 5 or it was 7. They had started their hike before the sun came up. I was only in my 3 hour and had already started the long road up.

The walk with these people was slower but it was probably good. 10.5 hours before, I walked the entire round of about 25 km. The people I went with the last bit had spent almost 18 hours. I was well trained and had missed the Olympics that year. So for me it was no challenge.

The hike to the Colorado river is more than 25 km 15 miles and to walk in hilly terrain about 9 hours. But this is mountain, so normally at least 12-15 hours. Guides urge you not to go up and down the same day. It is forbidden…
This Canyon, should be on everyone’s “bucket list”. You can’t explain you just have to go there ..

The day after is the partial solar eclipse …

A true anecdote from my childhood

glass shardsI start souping up glass shards from the shattered glass table in the living room. I’ve worn my workout shoes so I don’t cut my feet. Glass shards, of a fragmented life.

The chaos that was created in my mind I would benefit from when I trained for the Olympics many years later. Now I was only 7 years old and didn’t show much about, life school. It would hurt, to clear all the broken glass from my childhood. But I had no choice.

I had to make my way through the pain, without anesthetic. It was like watching open wounds and feeling the blood flow down the legs, to the pool on the ground. All the wounds had to drain and only then would I be free.

After that, the journey to the new unexplored land of opportunity began. What would I choose to be. Where would I choose to go. Nothing holds me back and I can find “promised land” for real. It took some time, but was worth every second.

Soon I will launch my new website … then there will be more stories of chaos, but above all development until today.

Mikael Avatar from lighter, state of emergency in Thailand

The time I have

The time I haveWhen the time comes to us. Getting time over, what do you do with life, then? I always hear that when I get time I will do …… ..and then people say a lot of things, what they are going to do.

My experience is that a plan is needed to achieve goals. Action steps, step by step in detail plan. When the actual implementation is done, new opportunities are always created that are impossible to see before I start.

Often it takes time, before I see the effects, of what I have chosen to begin with. I know that change is the only thing that takes me further in my development (see last week’s text).

Things that hinder me are most, external questioning. The views of family and friends. So I have to isolate myself from telling, too soon what my plan is. Otherwise, there is a great risk that people I meet will kill my plan. What I have learned over the years is to trust people who have already done what I intend to do. Listen to them and follow their insights, the process of success. Then the chance is very high that I succeed …

Every morning when I wake up I have millions and again millions of choices, which are possible projects. I am aware of this and choose to limit my choices to only a few projects. Private, occupation and free time. Then I work strategically, creating a template where I step by step take action on the new I want to create.

It is no more difficult than a shopping list. You write what to buy and then you go to the store and buy the things. When it comes to more complicated goals such as becoming an artist or learning a new language or starting to ride, the first step is the same, simply expressed. Step one can be, check if there are evening courses on what you want and then go there… or online courses on the internet (can be difficult to ride on the internet). Talking to more knowledgeable people about what you want certainly saves you years of carving out on your own.

To you who are a constant reader of my texts … do you have any benefit from the texts in your life? and in such cases, how?

CHANGE

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To be constantly in processes and development.

The universe is constantly evolving. It is said that the only thing that is constant is change. Everything will not be the same as last year. Everything has changed, it is really among the few things that is guaranteed. So I have to constantly grow and develop to keep up with the developments in the world.

In order to develop, I have to constantly decide on what to take away and what new will take its place. Constant decision: Am I on the right track. Constantly contemplating on what I’m doing now, is this leading to what I really want. Always be on my guard if my progress is optimal.

I’m getting tired just writing this. It’s really hard and time consuming, with all the information. One of my mentors says that I must become an expert at transforming information, to my benefit. Keep away everything that doesn’t affect me and just have focus, on what drives me towards what I want to create.

I get better just taking pictures for my reality, which brings me forward. Read and judge what I read faster. Say no, faster when the information is not essential to me. Turn off the brain so I don’t create new realities all the time.

How does the information society work in your reality?

Catch in life

Add a heading(1)Catch in life. Fishing lure passes through the air and lands at the edge of the reeds. The pike chops the fishing tackle directly. The pike is a little when it is up on the gray rock. How many hours in my life have I seen the fishing tackle go through the air? Fishing has followed me since childhood. Fishing herring in the spring and pimple perch on the winter, with the ice drill drilling hole after hole. Now only the memories are left of the happiness’s face when the fish nipped. I am chasing completely different things in my life now. The biggest I haven’t had to nip, yet. The happiness of being able to succeed, catching the happiness. So it becomes permanent as an immobile rock by the sea. Happiness is thinner than air and infuses away through the gaps in life’s crackled corridors of cotton-like, air castles. Does it even exist? It is said that you must have a counter-pole in order to experience the other. So the opposite of happiness may be sorrow. Without the grip of grief in the River of Life, happiness cannot be captured.
The cat mom eats up the kittens is a picture I try to push away. But it is not possible and maybe it is the picture that takes me closer to happiness. How many times do I have to face the opposite pole before it becomes permanently anchored in the frozen core of my heart? There are so many questions I can’t answer. Imagine if I could just be ordinary. Don’t philosophize much. Just think of everyday events in life. Jobs, rest, food and where to go next vacation. Simple and concise. I crank the line of life, once again and hope that this catch is what I want most. But once again I am disappointed. Another road choice that gave fiasco. I clear the lure and prepare the next throws. Faith is said to be able to move mountains. I think everything will be better, I throw in the stream of life.
Now I will pull up the catch of the happiness of life that takes me to the stone by the sea, where time stands still and everything is ok….