How to achieve your dreams in real life

How to achieve your dreams in real life

Mikael Avatar uncut for over an hour. The story in a new vintage for those of you who didn’t hear his story. His father beat his mother so seriously that Mikael Avatar was prematurely born. Has hardly hindered his progress in life …

Uncut means the video is completely uncut. Enjoy more than an hour with him …

To start over

To start over

When you have had a sports career and you are about to start living without the sport that has been your everyday life. Or you stop a job that has been a big part of your life. You may be moving to another city or ending your education after a few years.

How do you start learning the new way of life?

“The way to find the perfect life” is a team I have chosen to talk about at the 8th World Congress on Mind Training for Excellence in Sport & Life, in Gävle Sweden on June 12-16. I have been invited by Lars-Eric Uneståhl *, Ph.D.

This week I was invited to participate in the “Internationally Certified Life Coach” through the ICC – International Coaching Community. Lars-Eric and Elene Uneståhl’s first Life Coach education. I learned so much.

This is what I will talk about in this “live broadcast”

* President of Scandinavian International University is also the founder of the Mental Training (1960s)

 

Doing the footwork to achieve your goals

Doing the footwork to achieve your goals …

Book time with yourself. Make sure that you are in an environment that is inspiring and that you have to start the journey towards your goal.

When I started to create art, I booked every Sunday at 9.00 to 15.00 in my studio. I wasn’t always able to paint, but I was there between 9-15. This made it possible to create art and after a while the body was set to be Sunday art. So I created art and the goal was 100 paintings. Which I reach after some year.

I placed myself in an environment where you only do the activity where my vision existed. So if you want to train and get fit, the gym may be a good place to be. It will be difficult to stay in a gym 3-4 days a week without training if you understand what I mean…

Find your goal in the year 2019

Find your goal in the year 2019 or maybe the rest of your life

Without goals you come, nowhere. The more clearly you aim, the more chances are that you will reach your goal.

Questions to ask you to find goals 2019 or for life:

1. If the future were mine to reinvent, what would be in it for me?
2. On my deathbed, what will I be able to say was my biggest life achievement?
3. What a mission in my life will be the inspiration I need?
4. What is the one thing that I feel genuinely passionate about?
5. What do I enjoy, that really absorbs and engages me?
6. Can the job help you achieve my dreams?
(Out of the book Life Reset, by Mikael Avatar)

Don’t do it yourself. Get someone to follow on your topic that is more aware of what you are creating in your life. An inspirer that annoys you a lot so you always take steps towards what you want to manifest …

All coaches out there, for example youtube, have a coach. No matter how big they are, they have a coach mentor and they are constantly learning. Continuous development and curiosity about life. This may be the one thing that is constant. Everything else is chaotic before it takes shape.

Follow someone who teaches me new things in my life. So as a coach mentor.
For me, this means I watched over 100 videos about their business. Bought one of their products and went into depth what they did … then blindly followed them for a longer time, at least 6 months. Step by step what they say without adding my own variations or adding other methods I learned.
These people disturb me in a positive way. They put things on facebook youtube all the time. The whole time reminds me to stick to my life plan … they really annoy me in my life and make me do things I would otherwise forget. This means that, they drive me, forward to what I want to do. Without these coaches I would get stuck in some place I shouldn’t be … I would lose my focus, in life. I don’t have many I follow, but 2-3, otherwise I just get confused and overload with information and this end, with that I do nothing.

I fail all the time… last year I would, release a music CD or EP or whatever it is called. Failed totally with the music.

Released a book instead. So it was not total desperation … because I manifested something else. After watching up to 100 videos how to make a book for amazon I managed to publish one. It’s great for me. Without Stefan James, this book would never be created. Do you want to be irritated and inspired: How to create a new path in life I really recommend Stephen’s website: Project Life Mastery
To mention something, he makes a video every month on what he accomplished last month, in detail. What was the goal, how much money did he earn (down to cents), what private success did he do. He begins to create his successes from zero (actually in Thailand) and today one of his passions is to lead others to the same success … it hurts to follow him, if you do nothing in your life and begin to seriously manifest things in your life .

Further on, I will mention more people I have followed over the years …

So:
How much footwork do you do to reach where you want to go? And then really manifest the goal?
This is step 2 and I will make a live broadcast on this, next weekend

Is life a long wait?

Is life a long wait_Is life a long wait?

Our mom was waiting for us for 9 months. If we were not born earlier, like me about 8 months.

Many people seem to be living in their lifecycles. Some kind of start shot, then complete and then finish. Years out, and year in. Our schooling was divided so. Autumn reading, winter and then summer with leave.

The week can also be divided in this way. Monday start shot, Tuesday to Thursday implementation and Friday awaiting weekend. And then everything starts again on Monday.

The waiting for a driving license, waiting for the first payroll in life. The longing for finding the right partner to create a family. Buy a house or new car.

The road there is edged by different road choices to ensure future goals.

Those older enlightened people say all the time: do not wait, do … go out and catch the day (carpe diem).

The day today will never return. The day yesterday are memories that create future thoughts and experiences. The day tomorrow is blank and possible to do anything whatever you thought yesterday. Do we really understand this fully?

Text by Mikael Avatar

Interesting fascinating people

Johan NordansjöJohan Nordansjö is the person this week as “Interesting fascinating people”

I meet Johan the first time in 1988. Then he was the star who came home from Paralympics, Soul. We had been on the same computer education and I had the opportunity to talk to him. I myself had barely begun my sports career and far from Paralympics level like Johan.

We started hanging out and made lots of things together. Once I wanted to take Johan to a special restaurant. The elevator was too small and the restaurant was on the second floor. I said:
If we take off the wheels on the wheelchair we get into the elevator.
So I start taking off the wheels. When the wheels were gone, I had to keep the entire wheelchair from behind with one hand. So I could give Johan the wheels that he would hold. Then into the elevator. Press the elevator button 2 and balance the wheelchair.
On the second floor out of the elevator. Two CP-injured people come out of an elevator. It was the sight of restaurant owners meeting. The one shakes the hell and tries to keep the wheels in his arms. The other is fiddling with one arm to put the wheels on the wheelchair again. I ask if the restaurant is open. This is just one of many anecdotes with Johan.

Johan is a goal-conscious person and his performance in the athletics arena tells clearly about this. World champion, triple European champion, and more. He was back kicker. That means he kicked the wheelchair backwards. His best distance was 800 meters. After as his CP injury makes the muscular movements uncontrolled, he tied his hands and one leg under the wheelchair when he competed.

Eating with a knife and fork is not to be considered. They would just go around in the air and be dangerous. So just that view of a restaurant when he and I were out makes people unable to stop watching. I eat from my plate and I feed Johan from his plate.

This does not prevent Johan from being two-child’s father, author and appreciated public speaker.
In my world, he lives a common life like everyone else. Marry, have children and work. Johan is among the few people I met with a completely undisturbed upbringing. Most people have some kind of childhood trauma, but when Johan and I talk about this, there is no such thing in his growth.

johannordansjo600x400So for him, life is about just being common. To have the right to think and live like anybody. It’s not easy. Man has the ability to judge people from their body and not so much from their soul and heart. Johan has been detained by guards because they thought he had been on a run from any hospital in shopping centers. All the time people speak with assistants who are with and not Johan himself.

I would like to say that Johan is controversial author in a way and in another he expresses his opinion about the right to live a life. In his book “My Naked Me”, he says, among other things, that Sweden should scrape the sex purchase laws. All we people with or without disabilities have a sexual need. Which created debate. Other countries have this why not Sweden.

That he is writing his books with his nose is perhaps a little amazing. Johan’s lectures are kept with precision on the subject and are texts that people can accompany. His speech is too strange and people have difficulty deciphering the speech, for me no problem. This makes him an exceptional speaker who does not swam with irregularities that often happen in that industry.

Below text from Johans blogg, the link goes to a text I like:

in Swedish:
Johan Nordansjös blogg

for English:
https://translate.google.com/translate?sl=sv&tl=en&js=y&prev=_t&hl=sv&ie=UTF-8&u=http%3A%2F%2Fomsorgsfamiljen.blogspot.com%2F2018%2F06%2Fjag-tycker-inte-om-att-du-ar-handikapp.html&edit-text=&act=url

Get started using “Target the stars and reach it”.
Do you know that you have the opportunity to reach where you want? You have the capacity, but have you thought? Johan inspires you to achieve your high goals.
Even though we all look different, we are humans all, but what is the reason why some of us give each other bad feelings? In joking and seriousness, Johan explains and shows how the ways can go.

The preferred “Target the Stars and Reach It” is a fast-paced and inspiring journey through life, a journey of joy and the character of joy. It raises thoughts and opens up the possibilities of life.

Why I chose Johan Nordansjö to “Interesting fascinating people” is that he is normal and not really any special with his life. But society interprets him as special but he is one of them, if there are, most normal people I know.

Thoughts this week

Text by Mikael AvatarDo I have a skewed idea of ​​what’s going on in my life?
I have at least 20-30 years left of my life. So how to get the best possible development. I already notice that I do not have the driving force like when I was 20-30 years old.

Recently (2-3 years) I’ve tested artistic videos, youtube and lots of different systems for a better world for me.

Make me happy? Hmmmm … I have had happy moments all the time and have all the time in my world …
But a constant blast of happiness 24 hours a day, I can not claim I have!

Now is the quietest time in Thailand, where I live. The rain has begun. But that does not stop me from being at sea several times a week. It’s so quiet, by the sea.

Someone asks how to define what I’m coaching in. However, I could not explain. So I ask some people about what I do. Everyone answers the same thing:
It’s not possible. It just has to be experienced.

There are amazing replies, but how to explain to someone who does not know or do not need my coaching. Everyone knows someone who wants to develop.
Memories of something amazing you created for them …

I may have to start molding, what happens in people’s lives, as an explanation of my input / contribution to the world.

Children who come to me and after a while can count math again. Or a man / woman who resigns from work and starts his own business around his own passion. Or someone else who can start communicating based on their worldview, they have never been able to express themselves. Muscle tension that disappears in the body of people because they finally understand what is happening.

People who think of words I said and daily change their worldview for the better. There are many people over the years. 1000’s of meetings and experiences. Unforgettable moments. Both for people I met and myself.
All people who work with people have stories where their contributions have changed people’s lives.
One woman whispered in my ear once: Thank you for being there. I looked a little over her and she said: My son received a diagnosis for the rest of his life today and I cried desperately because he’s only 4 years old. Then I thought about you and your lecture that everything is possible. So I did not have to cry anymore, she said, and see you here the same day after so many years make it true, so thanks … then she disappeared without I could comment.

Second, sequences that are forever available and can be retrieved to not forget who I am and what my innermost goal has been throughout my life. Many have listened and many will never listen because I’m not in their worldview. I do not want to be there either. I just want to reach a few who really want to see something else.

You may be one of them. But I know you are one of the people who changes the lives of other people. Whether you want or not …

Thoughts this week by Mikael Avatar … maybe, will be a video next week we’ll see …