90-99% do not have command in their lives

90-99% do not command their life90-99% do not have command in their lives

They live a life because of the circumstances and choices they made. Including myself. So am I in the right place?

Absolutely. I am definitely in the right place physically and psychologically. But am I in phase with my happiness? Hmmm ….

It is more difficult to answer. Would I be happier elsewhere?

I think the question is wrong. I think the question would be:

Where do I want to be in a year from now?

I am constantly evolving and I challenge myself to constantly challenge my destiny. It is said that the only constant in life is change.

In our daily thought cycles, people ponder:
How should I fix this? Oh, this requires new insights.

We are experts at delaying decisions, which we should have made several years ago. We think tomorrow I will start, and so it went two years more

In the meantime, we maintain what is reasonable.
Fairly good, Fairly good friends, Fairly good job, Fairly good vacation, Fairly good time for yourself…

We would need a restart and we are waiting for the perfect time. Then I will grab my life…

The best thing I’ve learned in Thailand is that now … it’s actually now …

I can say to my wife / sister (complicated relationship):
When that happens, I want to do this… my sister / wife replies:
I don’t understand westerners that they want to waste time finding out things before it happens.

In Thailand you find out your conditions and what you think you want. Then “take the decisive step”.

One day in March, this year, we were without water. The municipality’s water reservoir pump pie. So no water for almost a week. We built a water pool to collect water. It is now used extensively by grandchildren as a swimming pool and then emptied into Lime plantation. Then it is filled up with fresh fresh water as a swimming pool. The pool was built in a few hours before the need for water arose. So we made sure to: take action.

So what do I mean by 90-99% don’t have the command of their lives?

According to Neale Donald Walsch, you have the right to just leave. When you feel that life does not work, you have the right, as a human, to go. Leave work, family, friends, city you live in or the country you live in. Just start over somewhere else where you can be happier. There is no law to stop you. You may be required to pay child benefit and similar things, mortgages and more. But morally you have no obligations to anyone about anything. You are a free soul on earth and most people have the opportunity to do what they want with their lives.

So what I’m saying is that 90-99% don’t have the ability to just walk…

When everything is put on its “tip” or we get cornered and it just doesn’t go anymore. Then first people do something. Not if life is just: Fairly good

That is why successful people become more successful because they have the ability to change and follow the flow that takes them closer to where they want to go. They take command of their destiny and adjust the plan they have so it gets better.

For decades I’ve been pondering, How to make people wake up:
“The fire alarm has been ringing for a long time now and you have to evacuate your hotel. However comfortable it may be. (Metaphor)”

Shake and get man to step away from a life that is: Fairly good

Even wrote a book on the subject: Life Reset, 5 practical steps

Still, after decades of searching, I have no 100% answer.

For 6 months, I took the help of a well-known author who helped me write down this process. We wrote 3-5 times a week for 6 months over skype. She lives in another continent. She interviewed me and asked in detail: How to Make People Stop Living Fairly Good Life.

It became a mail series, which you can get for free, look further down. Six fantastic emails describing this process.
The first point I raised was to observe and the process that starts an avalanche of new insights into what life really is.

I am really grateful that Barbro Bronsberg helped me to get down to concrete how to change.

Here’s how to get these 6 emails:

Click the link: https://www.lifecoachmega.com/free-download
You come to a page where you download my book, free: Life Reset
Full in the information name, e-mail
Then you have to confirm your email address in an email sent to you
Once you confirm your email, all 6 emails will automatically be sent to you for a number of days. In addition, you can download my book for free. An email about this will also come…

These mails are the best I have created and gathered the wisdom of coaching 1000’s of people, for over 20,000 hours of my life… Read these mails to get to the group of people who have more control over their lives and want to succeed …

2020 the year when everything will be different right ???

New Year's text by Mikael Avatar🔥🔥🔥 2020 the year when everything will be different right ??

My experience with myself and others I coached for 40 years and more than 20,000 hours of one to one coaching is:

  • No one wants to go anywhere voluntarily if they do not suffer and their whole existence is not threatened
  • I have not met anyone who has moved from where they are to a better standard in their lives without a coach / mentor or inspirer to help do what is required, including myself
  • Only 3 out of 100 people succeed though they have a coach / mentor or inspirer to help them come to a completely different way of living a life
  • Next everyone I talked to wants to live another life, but only 3 out of 100 manage to create this

A little of the above statements, he may explain that the coaching industry is only at the beginning of development. Are the coaches too bad because only 3 out of 100 succeed?

No…

Most people who have a coach / mentor / inspirer feel better and have a better understanding of their life, after collaboration.

My mentors I use say that people pay between $ 1000 and $ 10,000 for help for a better life, but 3 out of 100 people do the work that is actually required to take your life elsewhere. 97 people do not do the work, to come to a better life, though they paid for their own development.

3 out of 100 sounds very little, so let me explain. When you were a kid you might paint, ride a horse, play some instrument, play football or some other sport. How many of them you met when you were a child are now:

Artists, work with horses, musicians, or professional sports woman / man?

Probably fewer than 3 people… So we humans test a lot of things but it is about 3 out of 100 that actually after 5 years is still doing what we tested 5 years earlier.

There is no magic pill that you can buy. If you want to create another life, you have to work with the life task.

I have described over and over again how I created things in my life. To become long jumpers, you should do at least 1000 long jumps and 1000 hours of training.

If you want to get to the Olympics, you should do more than 10,000 long jumps and more than 10,000 hours of training. I did about 15,000 hours of training for my world record, in long jump for my injury class at Paraolympisk.

The same if you want to become an artist, musician or veterinarian or other profession. I did 100 paintings to see if I wanted to be an artist. Before, it is not possible to decide. You must, in my opinion, do many hours of work before you can decide if this is really what you want to do. Many read the subject of a profession in younger years, but the majority have a profession in something completely different when they are older.

I would like to say that:

You don’t have to have talent. You need passion to be able to do 10,000 hours in the area you want to succeed.

You need people around you who are like-minded, coaches, inspirers and, above all, people who believe in you, listen to you.

These people, you will need: when in doubt, when you are sad that it does not work, when you make the wrong choice, when you lose all hope of success. This belongs to the process.

So these people around you will support you to overcome all obstacles and keep your focus on your dream of achieving success towards what you are striving for.

Last year 2019, I spent between 500-600 * hours on an advanced Social Media Marketing course and will, among other things, in 2020 start helping people with internet marketing and launch my new website Life Coach Mega.

So now it’s time to see if my 600 hours * of training can produce the return I hope for. I have had great fun with my education and now the fruits will be harvested.

The leading theme from my teachers is:

Do the footwork, reprogram your brain, against the new, which you will create (which is your biggest obstacle, which you will not do), then you need some technical knowledge, but most of it is to train to think from a completely different perspective than where you are now. If you do this, you are there within 12-18 months whatever you want to achieve…

If you do not want to do footwork / rethink, against something new, you will probably live a life that 97% of the earth’s population does. Probably a good life, when you are 70 years old 80 years old and looking back on how you lived.

The 3% who do something else live an extraordinary life, which the other 97% marvel at.

You who read, right up to here …

Thank you: What are your plans for 2020?

Happy new end and welcome to 2020 with new opportunities

Mikael Avatar

Funds of Life Coach Mega, launched in 2020, very soon

* 600 hours per year = 50 hours per month = about 12 hours per week = about 2.5 hours per day Monday to Friday

 

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What is to be free?

What is to be free_What is to be free? Is it possible to be free?

I thought it was lying in a hammock by the sea and reading a book or maybe writing a book of my own.

Don’t have things on to do list or must do …

So I tested this. Literally. 2009 I restart. Move to paradise Thailand and walked every day on the beach for hours. Ate my dinner while the sun disappeared into the sea. Went home and felt the warm breeze blow through my hair. Days went by and I had nothing to do, nothing I needed to do. Someone said it takes two years. Two years, then it no longer works.

Month in and month out I went to the beach and ate my dinner with the sun extinguishing the sky. My focus was on finding what I really wanted to do. I thought a lot of things I wanted to do. But they were not true in my reality, which I really wanted to create. There were lots of air castles to be destroyed.

Two years went by and only then did I begin to imagine what I wanted. Two years to really unwind from everything. Today I can feel stress if I must fit in a time, in 2-3 months. I want my free flow of time and preferably nothing should interfere. I have people around me who help get things just floating around, but the system took time to create. Time to even know what I would do for the rest of my life.

In fact, I have never met any person who has taken time off from his life to find his life, for 3 years!

Some weeks, a month here or there, many people have taken the time to find themselves, but not 3 years full-time without anything intruding. It took almost 5 years before I started doing what I really wanted to do.

But has this made me free?

In many ways YES, but many things cannot be affected at all. Things that renew passports and annual stamps at the Immigration Office. Things like not being drawn into complicated relationships with other people.

As soon as I want to create something that is outside my comfort zone, I end up in complicated relationships with other people. This is because I have not learned how to do and have not created this free-flowing uncomplicated system yet. The gears do not fit properly in the gearbox. The car chops and needs to be adjusted before everything works painlessly.

So I talk to people who will help me with the new, but I do not know the words yet and have to guess as well. I must search for the perfect and people say come back when you know. Patience is not humanity’s best developed tool, yet.

So today’s wonder to you is:

How does your life’s gearbox work?

Are you trained for excellence?

Are you trained for excellence_Are you trained for excellence?

When you encounter problems, you solve the problem from the level you have been training for … This is done automatically automatically, without you being able to control.

A switch is turned on and the whole system is taken over when you are blocked. You perform everything according to the level you are or the level you have trained to.

Let me explain:
You have taught a child to tie the shoes right now. It goes great, for the child to tie the shoes. But one morning when you are late for kindergarten / school, the situation is more stressful and then it is next to impossible for the child to tie the shoes. This situation often ends with the adult tying the shoe. This for shoe tying, is not automated.

1000 times is usually the level of automation. This means that you need to do one thing 1000 times before the thing is fully automated. So you need to lift a water glass 1000 times before you have an automatic brain program, which means that you do not spill the water in the glass.

To take a more advanced example: You need to show your business concept to 1000 people before you have an automation program that will take you further in the process of building your business. It is said that it takes 3-5 years for a company to become profitable and this is one of the reasons …

You don’t have to be good or the best. You just have to do the thing 1000 times. Then you are automatically above average.

Statement!
This means that most people live a mediocre life in general for the level of excellence is mediocre under stress.

Most people do not do a thing until they become excellence and stop long before they reach results that take them over the first threshold of excellence.

You need about 1000 hours to reach a good level of something you want to develop.

30 minutes per day means that you need about 5.9 years to reach 1000 hours. 5.9 years sounds a long time, but you usually increase the time the more you delve into a subject. So just increasing by 30 minutes a day to 1 hour a day will allow you to reach 1000 hours in 2.5 years.

So what does your list of things you want to get excellence look like, and what things have you already got excellence?

This is my list of things I want excellence and things I’ve already achieved excellence:

  • I have made about 200 development videos for people. 150 is on my youtube channel, so I have 800 videos left if I want to reach excellence. It is said that 1000 videos give about $ 10,000 per month whichever topic you choose and you do not need to be good. Just make 1000 videos on one topic. I have a video with 1.3 million viewers maybe get $ 1,000 in total, but no longer.
  • I have painted / sold about 300 paintings so I have 700 left for excellence
  • I have made about 250 music pieces and have about 750 left for excellence
  • This year I have fed my brain with knowledge of Social Media Marketing about 500 hours of training. So 500 hours left before everything is automated

 

  • I’ve done more than 1000 long jumps and had a world record so I don’t have to train anymore on this … it was more than 10,000 hours of training to get there (10,000 hours is about 2.7 hours a day for 10 years). I’ve met people who were much better than I was, but they never trained the last 5000 hours needed for excellence. I mostly trained between 40-70 hours a week for several years…
  • I have coached more than 1000 people and developed a system of excellence, which has taken me more than 30 years to develop
  • I’ve lived in Thailand for more than 500 weeks in a row, and know how to live here. But still 500 weeks left for excellence (about 10 more years)
  • I have been feeding my brain with personal development processes for more than 10,000 hours. In 1992, my professor (with whom I was employed) said that I was the most read non-professor he met. There have been a number of books and articles, as I read, over the past 27 years. Development processes are my most passionate subject.

I love writing reflections like this text.

How to achieve your dreams in real life

How to achieve your dreams in real life

Mikael Avatar uncut for over an hour. The story in a new vintage for those of you who didn’t hear his story. His father beat his mother so seriously that Mikael Avatar was prematurely born. Has hardly hindered his progress in life …

Uncut means the video is completely uncut. Enjoy more than an hour with him …

To start over

To start over

When you have had a sports career and you are about to start living without the sport that has been your everyday life. Or you stop a job that has been a big part of your life. You may be moving to another city or ending your education after a few years.

How do you start learning the new way of life?

“The way to find the perfect life” is a team I have chosen to talk about at the 8th World Congress on Mind Training for Excellence in Sport & Life, in Gävle Sweden on June 12-16. I have been invited by Lars-Eric Uneståhl *, Ph.D.

This week I was invited to participate in the “Internationally Certified Life Coach” through the ICC – International Coaching Community. Lars-Eric and Elene Uneståhl’s first Life Coach education. I learned so much.

This is what I will talk about in this “live broadcast”

* President of Scandinavian International University is also the founder of the Mental Training (1960s)

 

Thoughts this week

Text by Mikael AvatarDo I have a skewed idea of ​​what’s going on in my life?
I have at least 20-30 years left of my life. So how to get the best possible development. I already notice that I do not have the driving force like when I was 20-30 years old.

Recently (2-3 years) I’ve tested artistic videos, youtube and lots of different systems for a better world for me.

Make me happy? Hmmmm … I have had happy moments all the time and have all the time in my world …
But a constant blast of happiness 24 hours a day, I can not claim I have!

Now is the quietest time in Thailand, where I live. The rain has begun. But that does not stop me from being at sea several times a week. It’s so quiet, by the sea.

Someone asks how to define what I’m coaching in. However, I could not explain. So I ask some people about what I do. Everyone answers the same thing:
It’s not possible. It just has to be experienced.

There are amazing replies, but how to explain to someone who does not know or do not need my coaching. Everyone knows someone who wants to develop.
Memories of something amazing you created for them …

I may have to start molding, what happens in people’s lives, as an explanation of my input / contribution to the world.

Children who come to me and after a while can count math again. Or a man / woman who resigns from work and starts his own business around his own passion. Or someone else who can start communicating based on their worldview, they have never been able to express themselves. Muscle tension that disappears in the body of people because they finally understand what is happening.

People who think of words I said and daily change their worldview for the better. There are many people over the years. 1000’s of meetings and experiences. Unforgettable moments. Both for people I met and myself.
All people who work with people have stories where their contributions have changed people’s lives.
One woman whispered in my ear once: Thank you for being there. I looked a little over her and she said: My son received a diagnosis for the rest of his life today and I cried desperately because he’s only 4 years old. Then I thought about you and your lecture that everything is possible. So I did not have to cry anymore, she said, and see you here the same day after so many years make it true, so thanks … then she disappeared without I could comment.

Second, sequences that are forever available and can be retrieved to not forget who I am and what my innermost goal has been throughout my life. Many have listened and many will never listen because I’m not in their worldview. I do not want to be there either. I just want to reach a few who really want to see something else.

You may be one of them. But I know you are one of the people who changes the lives of other people. Whether you want or not …

Thoughts this week by Mikael Avatar … maybe, will be a video next week we’ll see …