Sky is the limit

Sky is the limitSky is the limit

Proverb:
Aim for the sky and you’ll reach the ceiling. Aim for the ceiling and you’ll stay on the floor.
Bill Shankly (1914-1981) Liverpool football manager

For me, this is a limitation. By defining the end goal. It’s like saying: when I’m 40, I’ll be a millionaire

It doesn’t say what to do with the millions you have. Most often, money is not a goal. Without further defining: I will have a house by the sea, a big sailboat and a helicopter that can take me anywhere I want when I am 40 years old. To have this you may need millions.

Aim for stars in what? My experience is that the goal should be clearly defined. The clearer the goal, the easier it is to pursue.

Example:
If you say you want a means of transport. Then can be anything. Bicycle, car, airplane or space rocket.
But if you say you want a red Honda Civic to go to work with, this is more specific and easier to reach.

Many I meet just want peace and quiet. Great wish, I say. But what is this for you. One says to sit for a coffee shop at the train station and see all the people rush past with a cup of coffee, without having a time to attend. Others say a small red cabin in the woods by a lake where it’s miles to the nearest neighbor.

We are all so different and have different definitions of the same thing that it can be interpreted as anything.

The sky is the limit is more prosperity. Good job / career, money at the bank, nice outward and social status.

Aiming at something is one to create a specific directions on how to get there.

Red Honda Civic, may be: you need a job / income to buy one.

It will be much easier to make a plan, for how you can get there, to carry out your wish if you have defined what you want. When you have a plan the only thing you need then is to schedule the plan in your everyday life.

Last week I described about the automatic systems we have and how we create such systems. By doing a little bit every day towards our goals in life. Will you, over time, always reach your goal. You don’t even have to have talent.

What does it mean: Sky is the limit, for you?

Having a plan is not enough

Having a plan is not enoughHaving a plan is not enough

A plan is good to have. A plan for life or the gym or the holiday.

But a plan without action becomes nothing more than a plan. If you plan to go to the gym for some reason (feel good, lose weight, get better fitness) and do not go to the gym nothing happens. You can’t think, better fitness, but you have to train (what I know). Or going abroad without actually going abroad, on vacation, can not be imagined either.

Without a plan, usually nothing happens either. So plan and action belong together. Just doing the action is usually not good either. You just wander around without any real goal.

A good plan (in my opinion) is when what you are going to accomplish is booked into your weekly plan. Then you have a fixed time where you only focus on what you want to achieve. Really a little every day. 10-30 minutes every day is best and it doesn’t matter what it is you are going to accomplish.

There is like a law: What you think about you get more of.
So if you think and plan a little every day, it will be more of what you plan to do. Doing it long enough every day will almost always be accomplished. Sufficiently long, usually, every day for at least 30-90 days. This is about what it takes to create a new habit (habit) that becomes automated.

When the habit becomes automated, it usually takes another 3-6 months before you see clear results. Maybe not plan your vacation but go to the gym or write a book or open your own company. I usually say to those I coach that it takes at least 3 months before you can see the bigger picture of what you intend to do and what effects it new for when you change your thinking.

I think most people can think of what it’s like to have children, but it’s actually when you have children that you know what happens. There are so many factors that come in that cannot be imagined.

It is possible to think that you are sitting under a palm tree and looking over the sea. But if you do this in reality, so many more things that cannot be described in words or conceived happen if you did not do so in reality.

That’s what I think …

What do you think?

What illusion have you chosen to live in?

What illusion have you chosen to live in_What illusion have you chosen to live in?

Of the 1000s of people I meet over the years, this question is probably one of the most important to answer and above all make a map of.

Mapping the illusion, you live in is not as easy as it seems. First, I must understand that it is an illusion.

More and more people are beginning to understand that, thoughts govern life. What you think of daily, you get more of. If you think you have a shortage of money, you get more, a lack of money. Are you thinking that you have to solve problems with something, it is as if the problem gets bigger…

So, we listen to any “voodoo doctor”, you know those who seem to have the solution to all the problems of the earth. They tell us to focus on abundance and positivity. Enter your thoughts and see the image of abundance of money or a life of happiness.

So, we start thinking in other ways. A positive life with abundance.

2-3 weeks go by and nothing has happened. We are in the same deadlock, as before the “voodoo doctor”.

So, we stop.

After half a year or a year … the situation is even worse, and we know we must do something. So, we try to find a new “voodoo doctor” with a new solution. We look optimistic about it all and start testing.

The probability that the result will be the same is the next 100% … or more exactly 92%.

You may belong to the 8% who succeed. It is according to research at the University of Scranton. It says that why people fail is because there are no realistic challenging goals and that person does not have someone who can help you get you from point A to point B.

Example:
If you have read all this, you have learned to read!
How many hours did it take? Days? Maybe years?
Had we, a chance not to learn to read. I would answer NO. We didn’t have a chance. People helped us bridge the frustration and finally we read …

15-20 years ago, I started to read more in English, I was born Swedish and read Swedish. It was awkward, and I thought about quitting several times. It was too complicated. Tried to find the information in Swedish instead. So, I just slipped and created the illusion that it was not possible.

When I move to Thailand it became more natural with English and I could not slip anymore. I was more and more forced to handle English. Today I write my posts in English because many people who follow me cannot speak Swedish. My English is far from perfect, but I think most people understand, what I want to express.

So, when I lived in Sweden, English was not realistic in the same way as here in Thailand. Here I use English daily and my goal is to reach more English-speaking audiences.

Today I dream in English when I sleep and think English. In fact, find it difficult to find the words in my native language. But it took time and many English-speaking people. I have even written a book in English, available on Amazon to buy…

So, my thoughts have changed completely through the English illusion and I reach a completely different part of the earth’s population … than with the Swedish language

So, the week wonder from your world is:

Do you have a similar story where you lived in a thought path and then changed your mind, so you got a whole different life?

Write a comment and share this illusion text with your friends if you like it…

Doing the footwork to achieve your goals

Doing the footwork to achieve your goals …

Book time with yourself. Make sure that you are in an environment that is inspiring and that you have to start the journey towards your goal.

When I started to create art, I booked every Sunday at 9.00 to 15.00 in my studio. I wasn’t always able to paint, but I was there between 9-15. This made it possible to create art and after a while the body was set to be Sunday art. So I created art and the goal was 100 paintings. Which I reach after some year.

I placed myself in an environment where you only do the activity where my vision existed. So if you want to train and get fit, the gym may be a good place to be. It will be difficult to stay in a gym 3-4 days a week without training if you understand what I mean…

Find your goal in the year 2019

Find your goal in the year 2019 or maybe the rest of your life

Without goals you come, nowhere. The more clearly you aim, the more chances are that you will reach your goal.

Questions to ask you to find goals 2019 or for life:

1. If the future were mine to reinvent, what would be in it for me?
2. On my deathbed, what will I be able to say was my biggest life achievement?
3. What a mission in my life will be the inspiration I need?
4. What is the one thing that I feel genuinely passionate about?
5. What do I enjoy, that really absorbs and engages me?
6. Can the job help you achieve my dreams?
(Out of the book Life Reset, by Mikael Avatar)

Don’t do it yourself. Get someone to follow on your topic that is more aware of what you are creating in your life. An inspirer that annoys you a lot so you always take steps towards what you want to manifest …

All coaches out there, for example youtube, have a coach. No matter how big they are, they have a coach mentor and they are constantly learning. Continuous development and curiosity about life. This may be the one thing that is constant. Everything else is chaotic before it takes shape.

Follow someone who teaches me new things in my life. So as a coach mentor.
For me, this means I watched over 100 videos about their business. Bought one of their products and went into depth what they did … then blindly followed them for a longer time, at least 6 months. Step by step what they say without adding my own variations or adding other methods I learned.
These people disturb me in a positive way. They put things on facebook youtube all the time. The whole time reminds me to stick to my life plan … they really annoy me in my life and make me do things I would otherwise forget. This means that, they drive me, forward to what I want to do. Without these coaches I would get stuck in some place I shouldn’t be … I would lose my focus, in life. I don’t have many I follow, but 2-3, otherwise I just get confused and overload with information and this end, with that I do nothing.

I fail all the time… last year I would, release a music CD or EP or whatever it is called. Failed totally with the music.

Released a book instead. So it was not total desperation … because I manifested something else. After watching up to 100 videos how to make a book for amazon I managed to publish one. It’s great for me. Without Stefan James, this book would never be created. Do you want to be irritated and inspired: How to create a new path in life I really recommend Stephen’s website: Project Life Mastery
To mention something, he makes a video every month on what he accomplished last month, in detail. What was the goal, how much money did he earn (down to cents), what private success did he do. He begins to create his successes from zero (actually in Thailand) and today one of his passions is to lead others to the same success … it hurts to follow him, if you do nothing in your life and begin to seriously manifest things in your life .

Further on, I will mention more people I have followed over the years …

So:
How much footwork do you do to reach where you want to go? And then really manifest the goal?
This is step 2 and I will make a live broadcast on this, next weekend

How to start a new life, 3 tips for 2018

How to start a new life, 3 tips for 2018

1 You need a plan and an inspiration goal
2 Find as much info about the subject you can
3 Get a mentor on the subject, someone pushing you to achieve the goal

 

At the end of the video there are short clips of art projects together with Sacha Alexander von Oertzen.
Contributing actors are:
Elene Uneståhl, the main actor in this clip, inspires many people as coach and develops the world for the better.
Barbro Bronsberg, a dear friend for many years and inspiration for many people over the years as author and lecturer.

Music: Mikael Avatar and Sacha Alexander von Oertzen
Filming: Sacha Alexander von Oertzen
Film cutting: Mikael Avatar

This is part of a larger project to be completed in 2018.

See more from Alex on his youtube in a link in the description below:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA7QqiB7g1hCHDkQD6JxK-w

Where are you?

Where are you_Where are you?
Is the big question this time.

All of these choices you made in life have led you to where you are right now. Where is it?

Do you stand at a crossroads or in the middle of the forest, a field or the desert? Are you alone or do you have a company?

Are you in a car, helicopter or are you walking?

There is no GPS for life. A device where you enter coordinates, and so you only need to listen to the voice and follow it towards your goal.

If you are 25 years or 50 years, as I am next month. Do you have the opportunity to wake up everyday and create anything. As long as your heart pumps blood into your veins you have the opportunity to create just about anything. The same applies if you are 90 years or 100 years old.

An arrow is required, one direction you have to access. Otherwise nothing happens. If you’re just out driving without direction. Can you end up anywhere. Next all people have obstacles that make them not do what they’re going to realize what they have come here to realize. You prevent other people’s choices. By not doing anything, people in your environment do not do anything either.

We fall into a comfortable everyday and rarely leave our safe box. We stop challenging life as we did when we were 2 years old. We broke out of the system and became our own individual with our own thoughts. It is the driving force every day in all of us.

We defend ourselves that we have some kind of awareness what is possible and not possible. Most people on earth learn to walk. We only learn to stack up, fall and stand up. Close we go. We do not need to figure out why we should walk. We just learn to walking. Imagine which driving power to learn walking. How many percent fail, you think. If you do not have a birth that causes your legs to not work. I would like to say that it is zero percent. It is 100% of all people who have the prerequisite of learning, to walk, succeed. There is no education for the parents, because you should learn to walk. Does not matter which parents you have taught you walk …
It’s literally ….
Why have you lost the driving force that made you learn to go … or to move your wheelchair on your own?

The freedom to walking is I believe the greatest discovery of man. It’s nice to take a driving license to drive a car. But the freedom to move from one point to another without the parents’ involvement is probably greater achievement.

Here the training begins in limitations. For when we go, doors are locked. Kitchen cabinets locked. This to protect you. So, you do not fall down for stairs or get the kitchen knives. By standing and wandering around alone in your grown-up environment. When you have a larger area that must be limited to protect you from dangers found everywhere.

The older we become, the better we will be to identify hazards and to make a risk assessment how to handle different moments of life.

Somewhere we lose us. We stop accepting challenges that require an effort to correspond to learning to go. We will be comfortable and rest in the situation where we are. So where are you ???

What challenges have you ceased to assume? What excuses have you imagined yourself are approved to not continue growing in life school. What ways did you stop going?