Core of life

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What is the essence of your life

As far as parents are concerned, the core is the children. Everything depends on the children, depending on the age they are in. Such a holiday will be the most appropriate for the children’s needs. Most of the time crashes to ensure the needs of the children.

Jobs are tailored to the child’s different periods of life. But then then? The children have moved away from home and have their own families …
What happens to the core of your life then?

The essentials change throughout life. That’s where we spend the most time of our lives.

If you have an education in any form and work in that area. So you spend the most time at work around what you are trained for. It is the essence of your life at work. At home in your free time you can have a completely different area around life.

Some people have life projects that can be: a family farm to be maintained so the children can take over when they are adults.

If you think you have a boring common life that nobody wants to hear about. I would like you for a while to think like this.

No matter who you are or how you grew up, you have a story. That story can always help other people understand how important their lives are. It is in those small details that life is alive.

There are always listeners out there in the world who want to hear your story. If you have a job, family and live what you think a boring common life, that’s not true. If you would start to document what you do each week in any way.

Write, film or talk to your mobile. Will you discover how rich your life is. You will see how many moments of life it happens real miracle. The first step the children take or when they learn the multiplication table. Drive a car without you … you and your partner experience something magical for a regular evening.

By starting to document, you’ll see patterns of living your life and finding the core, or the essence of your life.

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To take a stand for or against and decide?

To take a stand, for or against, and decide_Thoughts this week …
To take a stand, for or against, and decide? How do I do this?
I have no idea. There are many positions I must do all the time on many things. I try to proceed: What is good for me or in coaching What is good for the client?

By not taking a stand, I take a stand still. I surrender the responsibility to someone else. Or let life control me more randomly if I do not take a stand.

In terms of energy, you lose energy unless you don’t decide. You place the decision unconsciously on a mental shelf where it lies and sparkles just like loose power cords.

When deciding, it is like taking the plug and plugging it into the wall socket and the light is on. Then you see everything much clearer and you do not have to squint with your eyes to see what more decision you will take. You can puff out and the body relaxes.

Perhaps this metaphor can help how important it is to take a decision.

When it comes to making decisions about food, I really try to transfer this to my wife / sister as far as possible. I have a great defense because she is a Chef (even five-star Chef). She knows more about food than me and I have more attitude: Oh, are we going to eat today too …

More complicated decisions, I often must weigh in other factors. Thereafter, a couple of decisions are made and lots of new decisions must be made.

Example:

When I moved to Thailand, it’s not just moving.
The cramps in my body disappear, but how to survive in Thailand, legally leave Sweden, state of residence in Thailand and more. My friends, assignments I had in Sweden and divorce me from my wife.

First, I must make the decision to move. You cannot, for example, legally leave Sweden in case I’m moving. You must actually move from Sweden first.

You should decide about “The Core”, the essence first. The main subject where everything circles around.

So what’s the essence of your life? How to Find What’s Essential in Your Life?

Next week I will write about How to find the essence of life …