90-99% do not have command in their lives
They live a life because of the circumstances and choices they made. Including myself. So am I in the right place?
Absolutely. I am definitely in the right place physically and psychologically. But am I in phase with my happiness? Hmmm ….
It is more difficult to answer. Would I be happier elsewhere?
I think the question is wrong. I think the question would be:
Where do I want to be in a year from now?
I am constantly evolving and I challenge myself to constantly challenge my destiny. It is said that the only constant in life is change.
In our daily thought cycles, people ponder:
How should I fix this? Oh, this requires new insights.
We are experts at delaying decisions, which we should have made several years ago. We think tomorrow I will start, and so it went two years more
In the meantime, we maintain what is reasonable.
Fairly good, Fairly good friends, Fairly good job, Fairly good vacation, Fairly good time for yourself…
We would need a restart and we are waiting for the perfect time. Then I will grab my life…
The best thing I’ve learned in Thailand is that now … it’s actually now …
I can say to my wife / sister (complicated relationship):
When that happens, I want to do this… my sister / wife replies:
I don’t understand westerners that they want to waste time finding out things before it happens.
In Thailand you find out your conditions and what you think you want. Then “take the decisive step”.
One day in March, this year, we were without water. The municipality’s water reservoir pump pie. So no water for almost a week. We built a water pool to collect water. It is now used extensively by grandchildren as a swimming pool and then emptied into Lime plantation. Then it is filled up with fresh fresh water as a swimming pool. The pool was built in a few hours before the need for water arose. So we made sure to: take action.
So what do I mean by 90-99% don’t have the command of their lives?
According to Neale Donald Walsch, you have the right to just leave. When you feel that life does not work, you have the right, as a human, to go. Leave work, family, friends, city you live in or the country you live in. Just start over somewhere else where you can be happier. There is no law to stop you. You may be required to pay child benefit and similar things, mortgages and more. But morally you have no obligations to anyone about anything. You are a free soul on earth and most people have the opportunity to do what they want with their lives.
So what I’m saying is that 90-99% don’t have the ability to just walk…
When everything is put on its “tip” or we get cornered and it just doesn’t go anymore. Then first people do something. Not if life is just: Fairly good
That is why successful people become more successful because they have the ability to change and follow the flow that takes them closer to where they want to go. They take command of their destiny and adjust the plan they have so it gets better.
For decades I’ve been pondering, How to make people wake up:
“The fire alarm has been ringing for a long time now and you have to evacuate your hotel. However comfortable it may be. (Metaphor)”
Shake and get man to step away from a life that is: Fairly good
Even wrote a book on the subject: Life Reset, 5 practical steps
Still, after decades of searching, I have no 100% answer.
For 6 months, I took the help of a well-known author who helped me write down this process. We wrote 3-5 times a week for 6 months over skype. She lives in another continent. She interviewed me and asked in detail: How to Make People Stop Living Fairly Good Life.
It became a mail series, which you can get for free, look further down. Six fantastic emails describing this process.
The first point I raised was to observe and the process that starts an avalanche of new insights into what life really is.
I am really grateful that Barbro Bronsberg helped me to get down to concrete how to change.
Here’s how to get these 6 emails:
Click the link: https://www.lifecoachmega.com/free-download
You come to a page where you download my book, free: Life Reset
Full in the information name, e-mail
Then you have to confirm your email address in an email sent to you
Once you confirm your email, all 6 emails will automatically be sent to you for a number of days. In addition, you can download my book for free. An email about this will also come…
These mails are the best I have created and gathered the wisdom of coaching 1000’s of people, for over 20,000 hours of my life… Read these mails to get to the group of people who have more control over their lives and want to succeed …
Question: What is the one thing that you feel genuinely passionate about?
The red cliff valley is spreading. At the bottom there is a river, which it cannot be seen from the edge. A tear runs down the cheek. So breathtaking is the sight. One of the wonders that exists on earth lies ahead of me. I lock the rental car and start walking. Go down the mountain after a trail and think it may not take that long.
I start souping up glass shards from the shattered glass table in the living room. I’ve worn my workout shoes so I don’t cut my feet. Glass shards, of a fragmented life.
When the time comes to us. Getting time over, what do you do with life, then? I always hear that when I get time I will do …… ..and then people say a lot of things, what they are going to do.
CHANGE
Catch in life. Fishing lure passes through the air and lands at the edge of the reeds. The pike chops the fishing tackle directly. The pike is a little when it is up on the gray rock. How many hours in my life have I seen the fishing tackle go through the air? Fishing has followed me since childhood. Fishing herring in the spring and pimple perch on the winter, with the ice drill drilling hole after hole. Now only the memories are left of the happiness’s face when the fish nipped. I am chasing completely different things in my life now. The biggest I haven’t had to nip, yet. The happiness of being able to succeed, catching the happiness. So it becomes permanent as an immobile rock by the sea. Happiness is thinner than air and infuses away through the gaps in life’s crackled corridors of cotton-like, air castles. Does it even exist? It is said that you must have a counter-pole in order to experience the other. So the opposite of happiness may be sorrow. Without the grip of grief in the River of Life, happiness cannot be captured.