How to achieve your dreams in real life
Mikael Avatar uncut for over an hour. The story in a new vintage for those of you who didn’t hear his story. His father beat his mother so seriously that Mikael Avatar was prematurely born. Has hardly hindered his progress in life …
Uncut means the video is completely uncut. Enjoy more than an hour with him …
To start over
When you have had a sports career and you are about to start living without the sport that has been your everyday life. Or you stop a job that has been a big part of your life. You may be moving to another city or ending your education after a few years.
How do you start learning the new way of life?
“The way to find the perfect life” is a team I have chosen to talk about at the 8th World Congress on Mind Training for Excellence in Sport & Life, in Gävle Sweden on June 12-16. I have been invited by Lars-Eric Uneståhl *, Ph.D.
This week I was invited to participate in the “Internationally Certified Life Coach” through the ICC – International Coaching Community. Lars-Eric and Elene Uneståhl’s first Life Coach education. I learned so much.
This is what I will talk about in this “live broadcast”
* President of Scandinavian International University is also the founder of the Mental Training (1960s)
Doing the footwork to achieve your goals …
Book time with yourself. Make sure that you are in an environment that is inspiring and that you have to start the journey towards your goal.
When I started to create art, I booked every Sunday at 9.00 to 15.00 in my studio. I wasn’t always able to paint, but I was there between 9-15. This made it possible to create art and after a while the body was set to be Sunday art. So I created art and the goal was 100 paintings. Which I reach after some year.
I placed myself in an environment where you only do the activity where my vision existed. So if you want to train and get fit, the gym may be a good place to be. It will be difficult to stay in a gym 3-4 days a week without training if you understand what I mean…
Find your goal in the year 2019 or maybe the rest of your life
Without goals you come, nowhere. The more clearly you aim, the more chances are that you will reach your goal.
Questions to ask you to find goals 2019 or for life:
1. If the future were mine to reinvent, what would be in it for me?
2. On my deathbed, what will I be able to say was my biggest life achievement?
3. What a mission in my life will be the inspiration I need?
4. What is the one thing that I feel genuinely passionate about?
5. What do I enjoy, that really absorbs and engages me?
6. Can the job help you achieve my dreams?
(Out of the book Life Reset, by Mikael Avatar)
Don’t do it yourself. Get someone to follow on your topic that is more aware of what you are creating in your life. An inspirer that annoys you a lot so you always take steps towards what you want to manifest …
All coaches out there, for example youtube, have a coach. No matter how big they are, they have a coach mentor and they are constantly learning. Continuous development and curiosity about life. This may be the one thing that is constant. Everything else is chaotic before it takes shape.
Follow someone who teaches me new things in my life. So as a coach mentor.
For me, this means I watched over 100 videos about their business. Bought one of their products and went into depth what they did … then blindly followed them for a longer time, at least 6 months. Step by step what they say without adding my own variations or adding other methods I learned.
These people disturb me in a positive way. They put things on facebook youtube all the time. The whole time reminds me to stick to my life plan … they really annoy me in my life and make me do things I would otherwise forget. This means that, they drive me, forward to what I want to do. Without these coaches I would get stuck in some place I shouldn’t be … I would lose my focus, in life. I don’t have many I follow, but 2-3, otherwise I just get confused and overload with information and this end, with that I do nothing.
I fail all the time… last year I would, release a music CD or EP or whatever it is called. Failed totally with the music.
Released a book instead. So it was not total desperation … because I manifested something else. After watching up to 100 videos how to make a book for amazon I managed to publish one. It’s great for me. Without Stefan James, this book would never be created. Do you want to be irritated and inspired: How to create a new path in life I really recommend Stephen’s website: Project Life Mastery
To mention something, he makes a video every month on what he accomplished last month, in detail. What was the goal, how much money did he earn (down to cents), what private success did he do. He begins to create his successes from zero (actually in Thailand) and today one of his passions is to lead others to the same success … it hurts to follow him, if you do nothing in your life and begin to seriously manifest things in your life .
Further on, I will mention more people I have followed over the years …
So:
How much footwork do you do to reach where you want to go? And then really manifest the goal?
This is step 2 and I will make a live broadcast on this, next weekend
Book world’s magical world
Being able to publish a book is an art piece in itself.
The problem starts there. The problem of marketing the book. I would like to say that manifesting a book is simple compared to marketing a book.
Most often you let someone else take over and, for example, a publisher publishes your book. First, you must qualify as a publisher and as an unknown person, this can be a challenge.
If you are not a known profile in the world, I would like to say that the chance that a global publisher chooses you is very small.
You can then turn to a country only and a local publisher for this country. Later if the book sells in this country, the book can spread more over the world.
If you have follower worldwide, at least 30,000, you can use this group of followers as the basis for a larger global publisher to accept your book.
Having followers the earth is clearly the foundation of all success and English is the language to use.
Today anyone can manifest a book of high quality. Does not matter if you can write or where you live. You are responsible for marketing yourself and must learn the multifascinating back side of the book world.
It’s interesting, I promise.
There are more rules, what you can not do than rules you may make. Right now, I may not promote my book. It is now out of pre launch and then other rules apply, for example, facebook. The rules are changing all the time and you must stay up to date all the time.
If you want to write a book and reach out globally, I recommend using skilled trainers and schools out there. Send me a mess and I can send a link to the one I use.
Without school I would not be able to do this. I have challenges every day how to interpret all new things that I learn and I learn a lot. Some days I’m really fun and others feel like I’ve taken water over my head.
I have friends who support and they say if there is someone who can figure out how to do this it is you. Thank you for all those who support.
Today’s thoughts about the book world many pages…
Is life a long wait?
Our mom was waiting for us for 9 months. If we were not born earlier, like me about 8 months.
Many people seem to be living in their lifecycles. Some kind of start shot, then complete and then finish. Years out, and year in. Our schooling was divided so. Autumn reading, winter and then summer with leave.
The week can also be divided in this way. Monday start shot, Tuesday to Thursday implementation and Friday awaiting weekend. And then everything starts again on Monday.
The waiting for a driving license, waiting for the first payroll in life. The longing for finding the right partner to create a family. Buy a house or new car.
The road there is edged by different road choices to ensure future goals.
Those older enlightened people say all the time: do not wait, do … go out and catch the day (carpe diem).
The day today will never return. The day yesterday are memories that create future thoughts and experiences. The day tomorrow is blank and possible to do anything whatever you thought yesterday. Do we really understand this fully?
Text by Mikael Avatar
To be dumped
The first time my parents get me from a summer camp where you dump children with disabilities. I cried for hours after they came and picked me up. Mom promised never to do this again.
Not to be included. We have all experienced this in some form. Not having access to not being good enough.
My mom did not have a chance. She had to leave me next summer again. Doctors and therapists said it was good for me to meet children with disabilities. My parents needed rest. Was I really as painful as the doctors said. Took so much power to have me home in the summer. So every summer vacation I was always in camps from 5-6 years until I was 11-12 years old. That was the law. Not the law of the mother, but the law of society.
When I grew older it became the summer day colony. Every day, go by taxi to a beach and be there all day, with other disabled people. So, it was for me to grow up in the summer with Cerebral Palsy.
If I’m sorry, no idea. I had to do things children on my street, had no access to. So, maybe it was good that society decides, over parents when it comes to disabled children …
What did you do in the summer as a child?
